Polyamory: cov lus teb rau cov lus nug tseem ceeb txog kev hlub uas tsis yog-monogamous

2024 Tus sau: Malcolm Clapton | [email protected]. Kawg hloov kho: 2023-12-17 03:58

Polyamory tsis txhais hais tias kev sib deev promiscuous - txhua yam yog qhov nyuaj dua.

Polyamory yog dab tsi

Muaj ntau cov lus txhais rau lo lus no, tab sis feem ntau nws tuaj yeem piav raws li hauv qab no.

Polyamory - yog kev txaus siab los yog nyob rau hauv kev sib raug zoo (kev xav thiab / lossis kev sib deev) nrog ntau tshaj ib tus neeg, raug tso cai, qhib siab thiab paub txog qhov no.

Koj puas tau hlub ob tug tib lub sijhawm thiab xaiv tsis tau? Yog tias muaj, koj paub tias qhov no yog dab tsi.

Qhov txawv ntawm Polyamory thiab Cheating yog dab tsi

Thawj qhov yog tias txhua tus neeg koom nrog hauv kev sib raug zoo no paub meej pom zoo rau lawv. Tsis muaj leej twg rhuav tshem kev cog lus, tsis dag lossis zais.

Kev noj qab haus huv polyamorous kev sib raug zoo feem ntau yog tshwm sim los ntawm kev sib hwm thiab kev qhib siab ntawm cov neeg koom.

Nyob rau tib lub sijhawm, cov neeg koom tes tuaj yeem teeb tsa qee thaj tsam thiab ua tiav cov lus pom zoo. Ua txhaum lawv yuav ua phem rau kev sib raug zoo ib yam li kev dag nyob rau hauv ib tug monogamous union.

Polyamorous kev sib raug zoo yog dab tsi?

1. V- Tsab ntawv Latin no qhia txog qhov xwm txheej thaum ib tus neeg ntsib ob tus neeg uas tsis muaj kev sib raug zoo nrog ib leeg. Los ntawm kev sib piv nrog V, cov ntawv N thiab W tuaj yeem muaj nyob - qhov kev sau ntawm cov ntawv zoo li hint ntawm cov neeg koom tes, txawm hais tias kev txhais lus qee zaum txawv.
2. Daim duab peb sab- peb tus neeg sib ntsib.
3. Square- plaub tus neeg hauv kev sib raug zoo. Feem ntau, tab sis tsis tas, ob khub sib cais nkag mus rau "square".
4. Pab pawg - Ntau tshaj plaub tus neeg koom tes hauv kev sib raug zoo nrog ib leeg.
5. Qhib kev sib yuav lossis kev sib raug zoo - Ob peb, ob tus neeg koom nrog sib cais los ntawm ib leeg ntsib nrog lwm tus.
6. Solo - tus neeg uas ntsib nrog ntau tus neeg, tab sis tsis qhia txog kev sib raug zoo thiab tsis nrhiav kev nyob ua ke nrog ib lossis tag nrho nws cov neeg koom tes.
7. Hierarchical polyamory - qhov txawv ntawm qhov xwm txheej dhau los: ib tug neeg tawm ntawm "thawj" kev sib raug zoo (lawv tuaj yeem ua tus cwj pwm los ntawm qib siab ntawm kev sib raug zoo, kev sib raug zoo, kev siv nyiaj ntau) thiab "secondary" sawv daws yuav. Nyob rau tib lub sijhawm, tus khub "secondary" tsis yog qhov tseem ceeb tsawg, tab sis siv qhov chaw tsawg dua hauv lub neej txhua hnub ntawm lwm tus.

Tau kawg, txhua qhov kev faib tawm yog qhov xwm txheej: tib neeg lawv tus kheej tsim cov cai thiab hom kev sib raug zoo. Qhov tseem ceeb tshaj plaws yog qhov kev sib tham txog qhov no tseem muaj nyob. Txog thaum koj tham nrog koj tus khub seb koj nyob hauv kev sib raug zoo li cas, koj tsis tuaj yeem paub tseeb ntawm lawv.

Li cas txog kev khib?

Ib qho ntawm cov dab neeg hais txog polyamory yog tias tsis muaj kev khib siab hauv kev sib raug zoo li no. Tau kawg, nws tshwm sim, txawm tias tsis yog txhua yam thiab tsis tas li.

Piv txwv li, ib tug ntawm cov neeg koom tes tej zaum yuav khib, ntshai tias tus tshiab yuav overshadow nws thiab vim li no, cov kev xav qub yuav ploj mus. Nyob rau hauv cov xwm txheej zoo li no, qhov tseem ceeb tshaj plaws yog tsis pib teeb tsa cov kev cai tshiab, tab sis ua rau kev khib siab, nkag siab txog nws cov laj thawj thiab nrhiav txoj hauv kev los kho qhov xwm txheej.

Yog tias kev khib thiab kev ntxhov siab tsis tu ncua, qhov no yuav txhais tau tias kev sib raug zoo qhib tsis haum rau ib tug neeg, yam tsawg kawg ntawm theem no hauv lub neej. Txawm tias vim li cas tej zaum yuav muaj teeb meem puas siab puas ntsws.

Txawm li cas los xij, kev khib siab yog ib qho kev xav rau ntau tus neeg. Thiab yog tias nws tshwm sim, tsis tas yuav ntshai nws - koj yuav tsum tshawb xyuas nws.

Yuav ua li cas paub yog tias polyamory yog txoj cai rau koj

Muaj ntau yam laj thawj vim li cas tib neeg nyiam qhib kev sib raug zoo. Nov yog qee qhov ntawm lawv.

1. Tus neeg muaj kev xav tob lossis mob siab rau ntau tus neeg tib lub sijhawm thiab xav qhia cov kev xav ntawd ywj pheej.
2. Ib tug neeg tso cai rau kev sib raug zoo tsim ib txwm muaj, tsis txwv lawv ntau dhau.
3. Muaj ntau tus neeg koom tes yog ib txwm zoo rau ib tug neeg raws li kev phooj ywg nrog ntau tus neeg.
4. Ib tug neeg nrhiav kev sib txawv ntawm kev sib deev thiab kev sib deev thiab paub tias ib tus khub tsis tuaj yeem ua tiav txhua yam ntawm nws lub siab nyiam.
5. Tus neeg xav nthuav qhov kev sib raug zoo uas twb muaj lawm, tab sis tsis xav dag tus khub.
6. Ib tug neeg tsuas xav tias, "Qhov no yog qhov txias!" Thaum nws thawj zaug hnov txog polyamory.

Yog tias koj tau nyeem qhov no deb thiab xav tias txhua yam kev sau ntawv haum rau koj, zoo heev - mus rau nws! Yog hais tias koj tsis paub yuav ua li cas hais txog qhov koj nyeem, qhov zoo thiab. Nws yog ib txwm zoo li tsis muaj kev nyab xeeb thiab txawm tias ntshai thaum koj xav txog polyamory ua ib qho kev hloov tshiab hauv koj lub neej - tom qab tag nrho, qhov tig no zoo nkauj heev. Xav, ntsuas txhua yam, siv koj lub sijhawm: muaj ntau qhov nres ntawm txoj kev los ntawm "nyuaj monogamy" mus rau "txhua yam."

Yog tias koj paub tseeb tias polyamory tsis yog rau koj, ces qhov ntawd zoo heev. Qhov tseem ceeb tshaj plaws yog qhia rau koj tus khub tias koj tsuas pom zoo rau kev sib raug zoo nkaus xwb.

Thaum kawg, yog tias koj paub tias koj yog polyamorous, tab sis koj nyob hauv ib lub koom haum monogamous, dua txoj hauv kev zoo tshaj plaws yog tham nrog koj tus khub. Piav rau nws tias koj tsis tuaj yeem muaj kev zoo siab hauv kev sib raug zoo, thiab qhia meej tias vim li cas tsuas yog nyob hauv koj, tsis nyob hauv nws.

Qhov kawg tab sis tsis kawg, nws tsis tsim nyog sib piv. Ua monogamous tsis tau txhais hais tias yog khib thiab tshem tawm, thiab ua polyamorous tsis txhais hais tias yog qhib, pom kev, los yog dawb. Cov no tsuas yog cov qauv ntawm kev sib raug zoo uas tuaj yeem lees txais thiab tsis lees txais hauv txhua qhov tshwj xeeb. Qhov kev xaiv yeej ib txwm yog koj li.