Traed: teeb meem kev sib raug zoo thiab yuav ua li cas zam lawv

2024 Tus sau: Malcolm Clapton | [email protected]. Kawg hloov kho: 2023-12-17 03:58

Xyuas koj tus kheej.

Cov xov tshiab muaj txiaj ntsig tau tshwm sim hauv Twitter. Nyob rau hauv nws, tus kws kho kev puas siab puas ntsws hais tias yog vim li cas feem ntau cov teeb meem hauv kev sib raug zoo feem ntau raug txo mus rau - thiab cov kev ua dab tsi yuav pab tsim kev sib raug zoo uas tsim nyog thiab xis nyob rau cov neeg koom tes.

Teeb meem kev sib raug zoo

ABEW. Koj puas xav muab ntau tshaj qhov koj tau txais, thaum tseem muaj kev txhaum? Cov no yog cov tsos mob me tshaj plaws, tom qab ntawd nws tshwm sim ntawm qhov nce ntxiv, kom txog thaum tus khub pib tso cai rau nws tus kheej ua phem rau lub cev. Yog lawm, tawm ntawm lawv txoj kev puas siab puas ntsws tiag tiag tsis yooj yim.

xws li kev sib raug zoo feem ntau ua raws li tus qauv

1.lub sij hawm ntawm kev hlub, kev xav ntawm sho txhua yam yog zoo meej

2. nce voltage

3.climax (tantrums, scandals, fights)

4. "kev sib ncaim"

5.saib point 1 (thiab ib ncig)

Ntau tus nyob zoo li no tag nrho lawv lub neej, thiab cov neeg ruam tshaj plaws yog ib txhia tseem ua kom paub qab hau

JEALOUSY. Tsis tswj. Raws li txoj cai, nws tshwm sim rau ntau yam:

-tsis muaj kev ntseeg tus kheej

- ntshai poob

- tsis ntseeg tus khub

Qhov no tsis txhais hais tias kev khib tsis tuaj yeem ua ncaj ncees, qhov tseem ceeb yog qhov khib Schaub tau npaj los tham thiab mloog.

EMOTIONAL DEPENDENCE. Qhov uas ib tug neeg muaj lo lus "Kuv" yog hloov los ntawm lo lus "WE". Thaum lub ntsiab lus ntawm ib tug neeg lub neej pib revolve nyob ib ncig ntawm nws tus khub.

Hloov. Muaj ntau qhov laj thawj vim li cas lawv tshwm sim, tab sis txawm li cas los xij, yog tias nws tshwm sim raws li qhov tseeb, ces zam txim rau qee yam zoo li ntawd lossis tsis yog kev lag luam ntawm txhua tus neeg, TAB SIS raws li kev pom zoo - thaum pib ntawm kev sib raug zoo, nws tsim nyog tam sim ntawd hais tias sho vim ob leeg suav tias yog kev ntxeev siab, thiab nrhiav kev nkag siab ntawm ib leeg.

Kev hlub thiab kev sib deev raws li ib tug SHANTAGE. Kev sib raug zoo ua zoo li kev ua lag luam, ib qho ntawm cov khoom siv nrov tshaj plaws. Tsis txhob dag xwb yog koj tsis txaus siab rau qhov no.

YUAV TSUM IB TUG ME NYUAM UA HAUJ LWM HAUJ LWM HAUJ LWM. Qhov kev pom luv luv tshaj plaws rau kev daws teeb meem, ua haujlwm li ntawm 0 kis ntawm 10. Feem ntau, nws yuav ua rau muaj teeb meem uas twb muaj lawm, mus txog rau kev sib cais, thiab tus me nyuam tsis zoo li hais ua tsaug.

Yuav tsim kev sib raug zoo li cas

Ua ntej, kuv mam li hais tias ABILITY TO ALK IN PAIR, hais lus hauv lub qhov ncauj, tuaj yeem cawm koj ntawm ntau yam teeb meem thiab ua rau koj nkag siab zoo dua. Nws yog ib qho tsim nyog los sib koom koj cov kev paub thiab kev xav nrog koj tus khub. Qhov no yog ib qho tseem ceeb ntawm kev sib raug zoo.

Thaum hais lus thiab kev ntseeg siab ntawm tib neeg nce. Yog tias koj paub qhov txuj ci no, koj twb tau cawm koj tus kheej ua ntej los ntawm tag nrho pawg ntawm kev coj ncaj ncees corrals uas tuaj yeem sib sau thiab cuam tshuam rau koj txoj kev sib raug zoo me ntsis tom qab. Ib tug loj loj tus naj npawb ntawm cov teeb meem pib nrog omissions.

KEV PAB CUAM TSHUAJ TIV THAIV yog ib qho tseem ceeb, koj tsis tas yuav cuam tshuam rau tus neeg yog tias koj tsis txaus siab rau nws tus cwj pwm.

Piv txwv li: "koj phem heev" hloov "Kuv xav phem vim koj ua li no."

Hais txog kev quav yeeb quav tshuaj:

Yog tias koj pom qhov no, ces koj yuav tsum txhob txwm sim ua ib yam dab tsi cais ntawm koj tus khub. Cultivate rau tus kheej. Tsis txhob poob koj tus kheej.

MUTUAL RESPECT. Koj tus khub yuav muaj qhov chaw ntawm tus kheej uas nws yuav tsis xav kom Schaub raug ua txhaum cai thiab qhov no yog tus qauv. Piv txwv li, ib tug neeg tsis tas yuav tsum qhia tus kheej sau ntawv raws li qhov xav tau. Nws tsim nyog hwm tus ciam teb ntawm koj tus khub. Thiab tsis txhob hnov qab txog nws txoj kev nyiam thiab lub hom phiaj

Txhawb nqa. Txhua tus tuaj yeem muaj lawv tus kheej txoj kev npau suav, kev ntshaw, kev ntshai. Rau ntau tus neeg (ntau ntau dua li qhov koj xav, thiab txawm tias qhov no yog "tus neeg muaj zog thiab txaus siab rau tus kheej") nws tseem ceeb heev uas tsawg kawg kev txhawb nqa ncaj ncees tau muab rau tus neeg, los ntawm tus neeg hlub nws yog qhov tseem ceeb tshaj..

SECOND CHAW. Tsis txhob tsis meej pem nrog "thib ob" txoj hauv kev sib raug zoo. Yog hais tias tib neeg converge dua, ces koj yuav tsum to taub hais tias qhov no tsis yog raws nraim qhov rov qab los ntawm qub kev sib raug zoo, tab sis ib tug tshiab kev, nyob rau hauv uas tib neeg, tab sis leej twg tau mus los ntawm kev sib cais thiab kawm los ntawm lawv cov kev paub.