Dab tsi yog showmansing thiab yog vim li cas koj yuav tsum tsis txhob khav koj txoj kev sib raug zoo

2024 Tus sau: Malcolm Clapton | [email protected]. Kawg hloov kho: 2023-12-17 03:58

Lwm qhov teeb meem uas tau tshwm sim ua tsaug rau Internet.

Dab tsi yog showmansing

Lo lus Askiv showmance yog tsim los ntawm Showmance / Urban Dictionary ntawm ob halves: qhia (show, demonstration) thiab romance (kev hlub, kev sib raug zoo). Qhov ntawd yog, kev ua yeeb yam yog qhov ua qauv qhia. / Cosmopolitan kev sib raug zoo. Thaum xub thawj, lo lus no tsuas yog siv rau cov hnub qub thiab cov neeg tshaj xov xwm uas tau tshaj tawm tias kev hlub thiab kev sib cais rau pej xeem thiab txaus siab rau cov kws yees duab nrog lawv cov khub niam txiv. Tab sis nrog kev loj hlob ntawm kev tshaj xov xwm, leej twg tuaj yeem ua tus ua yeeb yam.

Koj tus kheej tej zaum feem ntau stumbled raws li ntxim hlub, romantic los yog frankly qab zib duab ntawm zoo siab khub niam txiv nyob rau hauv pub. Cov neeg qhia cov neeg siv khoom thiab lub ntiaj teb lawv li cas lawv mus rau hnub thiab ua kev zoo siab rau hnub tseem ceeb, lawv muab khoom plig li cas rau ib leeg thiab sib hlub sib pab. Lawv tshaj tawm txoj kev tsiv, kab tshoob thiab kev xeeb tub, tham txog kev sib cav thiab kev sib nrauj. Txawm tias zoo heev lub sij hawm raug ntes nyob rau hauv lub thav duab: hnia thiab puag, noj tshais hauv txaj, tsev seev cev hauv nplooj ntawv, kua muag thiab squambles.

Showmansing, uas yog, pej xeem ua qauv qhia ntawm lawv cov kev sib raug zoo thiab kev xav, yog sau txog raws li lwm yam txawv niaj hnub tiam, xws li bradcrambing los yog ghosting. Tab sis cov qauv no, tsis zoo li lwm tus, tsawg kawg yog qee zaum ua raws li yuav luag txhua tus neeg uas muaj nplooj ntawv hauv social network.

Vim li cas tib neeg tham txog lawv tus kheej lub neej

1. Lawv nyob hauv social networks

Cov neeg uas nquag tswj hwm lawv cov nplooj ntawv sai sai tau siv los kho lawv txhua kauj ruam hauv cov ntawv tshaj tawm thiab Dab Neeg. Qhia rau ntiaj teb seb koj hnia tus neeg hlub li cas, lossis, qhov sib txawv, kev quaj ntawm kev sib cav kuj yog ib yam dab tsi.

2. Lawv xav qhia tawm thiab tsim kev khib

Txhua thib ob, yog tias tsis yog thawj zaug, ua qhov no hauv social media. Qee qhov khav theeb ntawm tsev, tsheb thiab cov khoom lag luam, qee qhov - kev ua haujlwm tiav, kev mus los lossis lub cev zoo, thiab qee qhov - kev sib raug zoo zoo. Cov neeg xav tau kev qhuas thiab ua kom lawv lub neej zoo tshaj plaws tiv thaiv keeb kwm yav dhau.

3. Lawv xav rub lawv lub qhov ntswg nrog ex-partners

Thiab dab tsi yuav zoo dua qhov uas qhia tias koj tsis raug kev txom nyem los ntawm kev sib cais, tab sis, ntawm qhov tsis sib xws, puas zoo siab hauv kev sib raug zoo tshiab?

4. Lawv tuav tsis tau lawv txoj kev xav

Thaum koj nyob hauv kev hlub thiab kev zoo siab, koj xav qw txog nws mus rau tag nrho lub ntiaj teb.

Dab tsi showmenning yog fraught nrog

Tsis muaj dab tsi txaus ntshai txog kev qhia txhua tus neeg txog koj txoj kev sib raug zoo. Yog lawm, ib tug neeg yuav ntxhov siab los ntawm koj lub ntsej muag zoo siab, puag thiab ob lub tsho T-shirt, tab sis lawv pom tseeb tsis ua rau mob. Muaj tseeb tiag, nrog rau kev ua qauv qhia rau pej xeem ntawm kev xav, nws tseem zoo dua tsis txhob overdo nws. Thiab yog vim li cas.

1. Koj ntxhov siab

Yog tias ib nrab ntawm koj hnub lossis so so yog siv tua Dab Neeg lossis lim koj cov duab, nws yuav tsis ua rau koj txoj kev sib raug zoo. Nws yog qhov zoo dua kom txaus siab rau kev sib txuas lus nrog koj tus hlub, thiab tsis txhob lo rau hauv koj lub smartphone.

2. Koj txhawj txog qhov uas lwm tus yuav xav

Muaj pes tsawg tus nyiam koj tau txais, lawv sau dab tsi hauv cov lus, puas yog koj nkawm niam txiv zoo txaus? Yog tias tsis muaj kev saib xyuas me ntsis thiab qhuas, koj chim siab lossis tsis ntseeg qhov kev xaiv ntawm tus khub. Yog hais tias, ntawm qhov tsis tooj, muaj ntau, ces koj pib caum nyiam thiab inundating social networks nrog kov cov posts thiab cov duab sib koom.

3. Nej ib leeg ua raws

Ua tib zoo saib xyuas koj tus khub txoj kev sib raug zoo thiab pib txhawj xeeb thiab kos cov lus xaus tsis raug yog tias cov ntsiab lus tsis ua raws li qhov koj xav tau.

• "Vim li cas kuv pheej sau txog nws, tab sis nws tsis qhia ib yam dab tsi txog kuv thiab tsis upload duab? Nws puas txaj muag rau kuv?”
• "Yuav ua li cas ruam hashtag nws tuaj rau kuv? Nws tsis zoo li yuav ua rau kuv mob siab …"
• "Hmm, yog vim li cas, kuv xav, nws ex nyiam peb cov duab?"

Feem ntau, xws li "kev qhia hmoov zoo los ntawm avatar" tsuas yog ntxiv kev tsis sib haum xeeb thiab kev ntxhov siab, tab sis tsis cuam tshuam txog qhov tseeb.

4. Koj muab koj tus kheej piv rau lwm tus khub niam txiv

• "Yog lawm, ntawm no Masha thiab Kolya pib sib tham tom qab peb, thiab lawv twb tau teem caij tshoob lawm!"
• "Nws tus txiv ua lub tsev nws tus kheej, tab sis kuv tsis tuaj yeem ntsia lub txee."
• "Nws tus poj niam npaj peb chav noj hmo, thiab peb ib txwm xaj zaub mov npaj txhij!"

Lwm tus neeg lub neej, dhau los ntawm cov ntxaij lim dej, zoo li zoo tagnrho thiab tsis tuaj yeem, ua rau muaj kev khib thiab ntxhov siab. Cov neeg pib txhawj xeeb tias lawv txoj kev hlub tsis zoo siab thiab sib haum xeeb li ntawm lawv cov phooj ywg lossis cov neeg paub hauv Internet, lawv gnaw lawv tus kheej thiab lawv cov neeg koom tes, ua rau muaj kev sib cav sib ceg.

Tab sis tsis muaj tus qauv rau kev sib raug zoo zoo: txhua nkawm niam txiv tsim lub neej thiab kev sib txuas lus hauv lawv tus kheej. Qhov zoo rau qee tus yuav tsis haum rau lwm tus. Thiab nws yog qhov zoo dua los tsom rau koj cov kev xav tau, thiab tsis yog ntawm cov duab zoo nkauj los ntawm kev tes hauj lwm.

Yog tias koj xav ua kom raug cai rau kev sib raug zoo sai li sai tau lossis nws yog ib qho tseem ceeb uas koj tus khub tau them nyiaj ntau rau lub tsev (kho, ua noj), koj yuav tsum tham txog qhov no nrog nws thiab nrhiav kev sib haum xeeb. Thiab yog tias koj nyuam qhuav ntes tau lub siab "lawv muaj nws, thiab kuv xav tau ib yam nkaus," nws yog qhov zoo dua rau exhale thiab tsom mus rau cov sijhawm zoo uas muaj nyob hauv koj ob peb tug.