Yuav ua li cas pab koj tus menyuam hloov mus rau hauv tsev kawm ntawv

2024 Tus sau: Malcolm Clapton | [email protected]. Kawg hloov kho: 2023-12-17 03:58

Thawj lub Cuaj Hlis rau ntau tus menyuam yaus dhau los ua hnub so nrog kua muag hauv lawv lub qhov muag hauv kev nkag siab ntawm lo lus. Qhov laj thawj tsis yog tub nkeeg lossis tsis kam kawm, raws li lawv niam lawv txiv feem ntau xav. Lub neej hacker tau npaj ib tsab xov xwm uas piav qhia qhov teeb meem yog dab tsi, thiab muab qee cov lus qhia tseem ceeb rau kev daws qhov no, tsis muaj irony, teeb meem nyuaj.

Rau cov niam txiv, txoj kev mus kom ze ntawm lub xyoo kawm ntawv tshiab yog kub taub hau tas li thiab khiav mus rau hauv kev tshawb nrhiav cov khaub ncaws, phau ntawv thiab lwm yam tsim nyog. Qhov tseeb, qhov tseem ceeb uas tus menyuam xav tau yog kev txhawb nqa kev xav. Txawm hais tias koj tus menyuam rov qab mus kawm ntawv tom qab so haujlwm lossis mus kawm ntawv thawj zaug, cov xwm txheej tom ntej tuaj yeem ua rau nws nkag siab txog kev ntxhov siab. Cov menyuam yaus feem ntau txhawj xeeb tos txog lub Cuaj Hlis 1st, tab sis qee tus raug kev nyuaj siab heev. Nws yog hu ua cais kev ntxhov siab.

"Nws zoo rau qee cov menyuam yaus muaj teeb meem nrog lawv thawj hnub ntawm tsev kawm ntawv - nws tseem yog qhov kev paub tshiab, tab sis yog tias tus mob nyob ntev li ob peb hnub, ib yam yuav tsum tau ua," tus kws kho mob menyuam yaus Annette Mont piav qhia. - Cov menyuam yaus yog qhov xav paub, pom lawv tus kheej hauv qhov xwm txheej tshiab, lawv siv zog kawm nws. Tus me nyuam uas tuav nws niam yeej muaj teeb meem, thiab feem ntau nws yog ib qho teeb meem ntawm niam txiv."

Kev hlub ntau dhau

Yog tias lub zeem muag ntawm kev mus kawm ntawv ua rau koj tus me nyuam quaj thiab ntxhov siab, yog tias nws zoo li tu siab lossis muaj mob, kev ntshai ntawm kev sib cais yog kev liam, thiab koj yuav yog lub hauv paus ntawm qhov teeb meem, nrog rau tus yuam sij los daws nws.

Kev ntxhov siab ntawm kev sib cais yog txhais tau tias yog qhov tsis zoo, cuam tshuam nrog kev sib txuas ntawm niam txiv thiab tus menyuam uas ua rau tus menyuam tsis muaj peev xwm ua rau nws tus kheej thaum tsis muaj leej txiv lossis leej niam. Qhov no kuj ua hauj lwm nyob rau hauv qhov opposite direction: niam txiv kuj raug kev txom nyem los ntawm kev nyuaj siab impossibility ntawm parting nrog nws tus me nyuam.

Montessori Tus Thawj Saib Xyuas Tsev Kawm Ntawv Sheila Linville tau pom qhov kev ntshai ntawm kev sib cais ntawm ntau tshaj ib lub sijhawm thiab nco txog lub sijhawm uas Niam yog ob qho tib si qhov chaw thiab kev daws teeb meem.

Linville hais tias, “Txhua tag kis kuv ntsib cov menyuam yaus uas tuaj kawm ntawv. - Ntawm lawv yog Jessica muaj peb xyoos, txhua txoj kev hais lus zoo rau nws niam tau los kua muag. Txhua yam pib nrog leej niam: nws quaj, thiab tom qab nws tus me nyuam pib quaj. Ob peb hnub tom qab, kuv nug Jessica vim li cas nws thiaj quaj. Nws teb tias, “Niam Linville, kuv ua qhov no vim kuv niam quaj. Qhov no yuav tsum yog cov niam thiab cov me nyuam quaj thaum lawv mus kawm ntawv. Kuv tau piav qhia rau kuv niam tias Jessica tau sim ua raws li nws qhov kev cia siab li no. Nws nyuaj rau tus poj niam lees txais qhov tseeb no, tab sis thaum kawg nws pom tau tias nws tau yuam kom tus menyuam coj tus cwj pwm li no. Tag kis sawv ntxov, txhua yam txawv kiag li: ib tug niam zoo siab yoj tes rau nws tus ntxhais, thiab nws tau khiav mus rau nws cov phooj ywg hauv chav kawm nrog luag nyav. Thiab tsis muaj phuam phuam ntxiv lawm!”

Cov niam txiv feem ntau xav tsis thoob tias qhov kev ntshai ntawm kev sib cais tuaj yeem dhau ntawm txhua lub sijhawm hauv xyoo kawm ntawv, txawm tias txhua yam pib zoo nkauj. Feem ntau qhov no yog qhov tshwm sim ntawm kev so nyob rau hauv ib txwm ua lag luam, piv txwv li, tom qab so haujlwm thiab hnub so, lossis thaum tus menyuam muaj mob rau ob peb hnub thiab zaum hauv tsev nyob ib puag ncig los ntawm niam txoj kev saib xyuas. Qee cov menyuam yaus tau ntsib cov kev paub no thaum kawg ntawm xyoo kawm ntawv, vim lawv tu siab tias lawv yuav tsis pom lawv cov phooj ywg ntev.

Annette Mont, dhau xyoo ntawm kev xyaum, pom tau tias cov niam txiv unwittingly ua rau muaj kev ntshai ntawm kev sib cais, xav tias tus me nyuam yog ib tug extension ntawm lawv tus kheej.

Muaj cov niam txiv uas ua haujlwm zoo nrog txhua yam mus txog thaum tus menyuam tawm los, vim lub sijhawm no nws vam khom rau lawv heev. Thaum tus me nyuam pib tshawb nrhiav lub ntiaj teb no tus kheej, cov txiv thiab leej niam muaj kev nyuaj siab heev kom lees paub tias lawv tus menyuam tsis koom nrog lawv lawm.

Npaj ua ntej

Thaum pib ntawm lub xyoo kawm ntawv yog ib qho kev xav uas yuav tsum muaj kev xav ntau dua li tsuas yog npaj txav ntawm tsev mus rau tsev kawm ntawv thiab rov qab los. Tsis txhob tos kom txog thaum yav tsaus ntuj ntawm Lub Yim Hli 31st los pab koj tus menyuam siv los yog hais txog lawv cov kev txhawj xeeb. Kev npaj rau tsev kawm ntawv yog ib qho txheej txheem ntev uas yuav tsum tau saib xyuas thiab muaj zog. Mont qhia cov niam txiv kom qhia lawv cov menyuam siv sijhawm sib cais nrog kev pab ntawm kev ua si ua si: “Ua ntej tso tus menyuam nyob ib leeg ib nrab teev, tom qab ntawd rau ib teev, thiab lwm yam. Yog nws paub tias nws niam yeej yuav los rau nws, txhua yam yuav zoo.” Yuav kom paub seb koj tus menyuam xav li cas txog kev mus kawm ntawv, Mont muaj dua ib qho kev ua si ua si.

Ua si ua tus kws qhia ntawv thiab nug koj tus menyuam seb nws xav li cas tos nws tom tsev kawm ntawv. Tom qab ntawd hloov lub luag haujlwm thiab cia koj tus menyuam coj tus kws qhia ntawv. Yog li koj tuaj yeem pom nws cov kev xav thiab kho qhov ua yuam kev.

Hais kom koj tus menyuam kos ib hnub kawm ntawv raws li nws xav. Ua si hauv tsev kawm ntawv - nrog cov ntawv ua tom tsev, phau ntawv thiab khoom siv.

Cov menyuam yaus hauv lawv tus cwj pwm feem ntau yog coj los ntawm lawv niam lawv txiv txoj kev xav, yog li nws yog ib qho tseem ceeb rau koj los ua kom pom tseeb hauv txhua txoj hauv kev kom muaj kev xyiv fab ntawm kev mus rau tom tsev kawm ntawv. Cov niam txiv ntshai tsis nco qab qhia nws txoj kev xav rau tus menyuam, yog li xim txhua yam uas cuam tshuam nrog kev hloov pauv ntawm cov suab tsis zoo. “Cov lus qhia zoo tshaj uas kuv tuaj yeem muab rau cov tsev neeg yog kom npaj koj tus menyuam mus kawm ntawv. Txawm hais tias qhov kev tshwm sim tom ntej no ua rau koj txhawj xeeb, qhia koj tus menyuam tias nws yuav hlub txhua yam, thiab cov phooj ywg tshiab yuav qhia nws txoj kev xav, piav qhia Linville. "Qhia koj tus me nyuam tias tsis muaj dab tsi tsis ncaj ncees lawm nrog kev sib cais ntawm koj."

Paub nrog lub tsev kawm ntawv

Ib hnub sim yuav pab kom tus menyuam paub txog qhov chaw uas nws yuav siv sijhawm ntau xyoo, ua kom yooj yim rau nws txoj kev txhawj xeeb thiab txaus siab nrog lub tswv yim ntawm kev kawm. Mus saib hauv chav kawm, ntsib cov kws qhia ntawv thiab kawm lawv cov npe, nrhiav seb cov chav dej thiab chav noj mov nyob qhov twg.

Tsim kom muaj kev sib raug zoo nrog tus kws qhia ntawv pab koj tus menyuam nkag siab tias lawv muaj ib tus neeg nyob hauv tsev kawm los tso siab rau. Rau cov niam txiv, xws li ib tug acquaintance pab kom tshem tau ntawm ib tug ncaj ncees npaum li cas ntawm kev txhawj xeeb. Yog tias lawv nyiam tus kws qhia ntawv, cov kev xav zoo no feem ntau tshwm sim hauv kev sib raug zoo ntawm cov tub-ntxhais kawm ntawv.

Teem caij cov menyuam yaus nrog cov niam txiv ntawm cov phooj ywg yav tom ntej, mus nrog koj tus tub lossis tus ntxhais rau lub tsev kawm ntawv cov khaub ncaws thiab txhua yam me me uas tsim nyog, hauv ib lo lus, tig lub xyoo kawm ntawv mus rau qhov xwm txheej tiag tiag. Qhia rau koj tus menyuam tias lawv yuav zoo yam tsis muaj koj, thiab lub tsev kawm ntawv lom zem.

Yog tias thawj hnub ntawm tsev kawm ntawv tus menyuam tseem txhawj xeeb thiab tsis xav koom nrog koj, Annette Mont qhia koj kom muab nws tsev neeg duab lossis ib yam dab tsi nrog koj cov ntxhiab, thiab sau ib daim ntawv nrog cov lus sov so rau hauv lub thawv noj su. Tus me nyuam yuav xav tias koj nyob ze, thiab qhov no yuav ua rau nws siab.

Smile goodbye thiab ua rau koj tus menyuam kawm ntawv thawj zaug. Tsis tas yuav teem caij farewell ntev: nws xav tias koj ntxhov siab thiab, txawm tias nws calmed, nws yuav pib quaj. Rau tag nrho koj txoj kev hlub, nws tsim nyog yuav tsum ruaj rau qhov teeb meem no.

Yog tias koj tus menyuam pom tias nws nyuaj rau koom nrog koj, hais tias koj hlub nws, tab sis tawm mus sai li sai tau thaum tus kws qhia coj nws mus rau chav kawm.

Kev pib zoo rau hnub tseem ua lub luag haujlwm tseem ceeb hauv kev tsim tus cwj pwm zoo rau kev kawm. Nws yog ib qho tsim nyog los tsim kom muaj ib lub sij hawm uas tsis ua rau muaj kev ntxhov siab rau leej niam leej txiv lossis tus menyuam. Sheila Linville hais tias "Muaj qee lub suab nkauj ntsiag to ua si hauv lub tsheb ntawm txoj kev mus rau tsev kawm ntawv, tshem koj lub xov tooj thiab tsom ntsoov rau koj tus menyuam," qhia Sheila Linville.

Yog tias koj tus menyuam tsis nyiam tsev kawm ntawv lossis muaj teeb meem nyob deb ntawm koj, tsis txhob cuam tshuam ntau dhau. Txhawb kom nws hais tias nws yuav zoo tom tsev kawm ntawv. Tsis txhob nias rau nws, yuam kom nws ua phooj ywg nrog cov phooj ywg hauv chav kawm sai li sai tau, tab sis nug seb qhov twg yog qhov nthuav niaj hnub no.

Tsis txhob quaj rau ib yam dab tsi thaum koj pom koj tus menyuam tawm. Txawm hais tias nws tab tom tos ntsoov rau hnub kawm ntawv tom ntej, koj qhov kev tawm tsam yuav tig mus rau qhov tsis zoo.

Tus kws qhia ntawv muaj feem cuam tshuam rau qhov yooj yim ntawm kev hloov mus rau hauv tsev kawm ntawv lub neej. Cov kws qhia ntawv tuaj yeem tsim qhov chaw sov thiab zoo rau menyuam yaus los ntawm kev sib tham ua si, hu nkauj ua ke, lossis nyeem cov dab neeg hauv tsev kawm. Kev ua si pab tsim kev phooj ywg thiab kev nkag siab ntawm zej zog. Txawm hais tias tus me nyuam mus kawm qib kindergarten lossis tsev kawm ntawv theem pib, thawj hnub ntawm tsev kawm ntawv yuav tsum tau ua tib zoo saib xyuas qhov tseem ceeb ntawm txoj kev loj hlob ntawm tus me nyuam tus cwj pwm hauv lub voj voog ntawm cov phooj ywg hauv chav kawm.

Kev kawm tsis ntshai

Ib qho teeb meem tseem ceeb ntawm kev yug me nyuam yog tswj kom muaj kev sib npaug ntawm kev tiv thaiv menyuam yaus thiab kev tiv thaiv ntau dhau. Nws nyuaj rau tsis quav ntsej cov xov xwm hais txog kev nyiag, tau kawg, tab sis cov niam txiv uas tau saib xyuas ntau dhau rau nws tshaj tawm lawv cov kev txhawj xeeb rau lawv cov menyuam. Niam thiab txiv tej zaum coj tus cwj pwm zoo li no kom tus me nyuam tau txais kev xav tias tsuas yog ib sab ntawm lawv nws thiaj li muaj kev nyab xeeb. Kev saib xyuas niam txiv tsim nyog yog kev saib xyuas yam tsis muaj kev txhim kho tus menyuam txoj kev ntseeg siab tias yog tsis muaj koj, nws yeej yuav xaus rau qee qhov xwm txheej txaus ntshai. Piv txwv li, yog tias koj txhawj xeeb tias koj tus menyuam yuav mus pw hmo ntuj nyob deb ntawm tsev, caw nws los caw cov phooj ywg mus hmo ntuj, es tsis txhob rov hais dua tias koj yuav pw tsis tsaug zog vim kev ntxhov siab.

Kev tshaj tawm tsis tu ncua ntawm kev ntshai thaum kawg muaj kev cuam tshuam tsis zoo rau kev loj hlob ntawm cov menyuam yaus. Tus me nyuam yuav raug kev nyuaj siab los yog txhua yam ntawm phobias, cov phooj ywg hauv chav kawm yuav thuam nws nrog tus me nyuam quaj los yog niam tus tub.

Nws yog ib qho tseem ceeb los muab txhua yam kev mob rau tus menyuam kom loj hlob nrog kev nkag siab ntawm kev ywj pheej thiab kev txaus siab rau tus kheej. Muab lub hwj chim txiav txim rau nws ntxiv. Cov niam txiv uas tsis ua li no qhia rau lawv cov menyuam tias lawv tsis muaj peev xwm ua tau dab tsi.

Rau nag hmo cov kindergartners, thawj hnub ntawm tsev kawm ntawv yog vim li cas rau kev txaus siab, vim tam sim no lawv tau ua loj heev. Cov menyuam kawm ntawv laus tsuas yog zoo siab tau ntsib cov phooj ywg qub. Kev zoo siab niaj hnub no, feem ntau, yog lub xeev ib txwm muaj. Yog tias koj paub tseeb tias koj tus menyuam nkag siab txog qhov xav tau mus kawm ntawv, nrog nws tham txog nws txoj kev xav thiab kev paub dhau los thiab qhia nws rau cov kws qhia ntawv tshiab thiab cov phooj ywg hauv chav kawm, txhua qhov kev txhawj xeeb yuav ploj mus sai sai.

Memo rau cov niam txiv ntawm cov tub ntxhais kawm thawj zaug

Nws yog txwv tsis pub:

• Khaws tus menyuam txoj kev zoo siab.
• Tham nrog tus kws qhia txog qhov tus menyuam xav li cas.
• Hais tias nws yog lub sij hawm los ua phooj ywg.
• Tau dai ntawm kev xav tsis zoo thiab ua rau lawv tsis txaus.
• quaj, pom tus me nyuam.
• Sawv ntsug ntev ntev hauv qab lub qhov rais chav kawm.

Ua tau:

• Luag nyav thiab zoo siab rau koj tus menyuam thaum koj taug kev nws mus kawm ntawv.
• Tawm mus yog tus kws qhia ntawv hu cov menyuam mus rau hauv chav kawm.
• Muab cov ntawv sau nrog cov lus ntawm kev hlub rau hauv lub thawv noj su.
• Txhawb kev ua si nrog cov phooj ywg hauv chav kawm.
• Tsim kom muaj kev thaj yeeb nyab xeeb thiab zoo siab txhua hnub.

Cov ntsiab lus ntawm kev npaj rau tsev kawm ntawv:

• Ua si ua si.
• Nyeem ntawv txog tsev kawm ntawv.
• Hnub sim thiab ntsib nrog tus kws qhia ntawv.
• Kev sib koom ua lag luam mus rau cov khoom siv hauv tsev kawm.
• Hnub so rau cov phooj ywg hauv chav kawm.
• Nce kev ywj pheej nyob rau hauv ib tug me nyuam.