7 cov npe los pab koj tswj koj lub neej

2024 Tus sau: Malcolm Clapton | [email protected]. Kawg hloov kho: 2023-12-17 03:58

Hauv kev sib tw kom muaj txiaj ntsig, nws yooj yim kom tsis nco qab tias nws tsis yog ib daim ntawv teev npe uas yuav ua tau. Nws tsuas yog lub luag haujlwm rau peb qhov kev ua. Nws yog qhov ua tau thiab tsim nyog los ua cov npe rau txhua theem ntawm cov laj thawj. Cia peb saib ntawm txhua daim ntawv teev npe no.

Xyoo 2012, kuv tau ua kev cob qhia. Nyob rau hauv ib lub sij hawm tswj seminar, ib tug ntawm cov neeg koom yws yws:

Kuv daim ntawv yuav tsum ua tsis ua haujlwm. Nws tso cai rau koj kom meej meej qhov yuav tsum tau ua. Txawm li cas los xij, qhov no tsis txaus. Kuv npaj cov hom phiaj, rhuav tshem lawv mus ua haujlwm ua haujlwm, teem sijhawm sijhawm, sau cov kauj ruam tshwj xeeb … thiab tsis txhob coj lawv. Kuv tsis tuaj yeem hla txoj haujlwm tau ib nrab teev rau ib hlis tam sim no. Nws puas tshwm sim nrog koj? Kuv liam kuv tus kheej ntawm kev ncua sijhawm, ua kuv daim ntawv yuav tsum ua dua, thiab tom qab ntawd rov ua tsis tiav. Peb yuav ua li cas thiaj li tawg lub voj voog no?

Lwm tus neeg mloog tau hais tias, "Koj tsuas yog mus ua cov khoom raws li kev txiav txim." Txawm li cas los xij, txhua tus neeg tam sim no, suav nrog kuv tus kheej, muaj teeb meem zoo sib xws. Kuv paub tseeb tias koj muaj lawv thiab. Tom qab ntawd kuv ntxiv cov lus qhuab qhia nrog cov npe ua tau thiab ua tau. Peb yuav tham txog lawv thiab tsis yog hnub no xwb.

To-do cov teeb meem

Muaj ib txwm muaj teeb meem nrog ua kom tiav daim ntawv teev npe yuav tsum ua. Txawm hais tias qhov tseem ceeb tsis yog lawm, lossis tsis muaj sijhawm txaus los ua kom tiav tag nrho cov haujlwm, lossis cov xwm txheej sab nraud tau hloov pauv. Nastya Raduzhnaya twb tau sau txog vim li cas cov npe yuav tsum tsis ua haujlwm. Yog li ntawd, kuv yuav tsis piav qhia txog cov laj thawj hauv kev nthuav dav, tab sis tsuas yog muab cov npe ntawm lawv:

• Tsis muaj kev txhawb siab.
• Siv zog ua kom tiav qhov tshwj xeeb yuav tsum ua kom zoo tshaj plaws ntawm kev siv nyiaj ntawm lwm tus.
• Ntshai tias peb yuav ua tsis tau tiav.
• Ntshai tias txoj haujlwm yuav ua tiav. Raws li qhov tshwm sim, koj yuav tsum tau rov ua dua thiab dua.
• Koj tsis yog neeg hlau ua tiav, tab sis tsuas yog tib neeg xwb.

Txhua qhov teeb meem no nkag mus tob dua li Cia li ua. "Cia li ua nws" yog cov lus hais ntawm Nike, raws li David Allen hais hauv nws GTD, tus neeg koom nrog kev sib tham kuj tau qhia. Tus kheej, cov lus hais no txaus rau ob peb lub ntsiab lus los ntawm cov npe yuav tsum ua, thiab tom qab ntawd kuv dawm hla cov teeb meem ib txwm ua dua. Kuv muaj kev ntshai ntawm kev ua tsis tiav lossis teeb meem kev txhawb siab.

Me ntsis ntawm kev puas siab puas ntsws

Cov teeb meem tau piav qhia saum toj no tsis yog nyob rau hauv kev tsim khoom, tab sis nyob rau hauv kev puas siab puas ntsws. Nws yog qhov tsaus ntuj nti tsuas yog rau cov neeg uas tsis nyiam nws. Rau xyoo dhau los, hauv chav kawm NLP, kuv tau hais txog lub pyramid ntawm cov txheej txheem kev xav. Nws tau tsim los ntawm Robert Dilts, thiab nws zoo li qhov no:

Txhawm rau siv lub pyramid hauv NLP, nws raug nquahu kom siv cov lus nug hauv qab no:

• Leej twg thiab dab tsi nyob ib puag ncig kuv?
• Kuv ua dab tsi hauv ib puag ncig no?
• Kuv siv peev xwm dab tsi?
• Kuv ntseeg li cas rau qhov ua qhov no?
• Kuv xav tias kuv yog leej twg, kuv yog leej twg?
• Nyob rau hauv lub npe ntawm dab tsi kuv raws nraim li no?

Cov lus teb rau cov lus nug kawg no feem ntau chim siab. Los ntawm kev hloov lawv nrog cov uas txhawb nqa, koj tuaj yeem hloov cov lus teb rau yav dhau los. Peb nce lub pyramid kom nkag siab tias yog vim li cas peb nyob. Nkag mus, peb khaws cia qhov kev paub no, siv zog los hloov peb ib puag ncig, ua kom peb cov yeeb yam muaj txiaj ntsig. Qhov no yog ib qho nyuaj ua hauj lwm puas siab puas ntsws.

Robert Dilts, zoo li lwm tus tsim ntawm NLP, feem ntau yog tus kws kho mob hlwb. Kuv tsis xav khawb rau hauv kuv lub siab txhua hnub nrog kev pab los ntawm tus kws kho mob lossis ib qho ntawm lawv txoj kev. Ntxiv mus, kuv tsis yaum kom koj ua qhov no. Peb lub hlwb yuav tsum ua haujlwm zoo li lub moos, thiab peb tsis nce hauv lub moos los pib nws. Yog li ntawd, txoj kev yooj yim thiab muaj txiaj ntsig ntawm kev tswj hwm kev txhawb siab, kev tawm tsam kev ntshai yog xav tau, thiab dab ntxwg nyoog paub tias muaj teeb meem dab tsi tshwm sim hauv peb tus ntsuj plig. Xav tau ib yam cuab yeej yooj yim, raws li daim ntawv teev npe yuav tsum ua. Nws yuav tsum daws qhov teeb meem thaum koj tsis tuaj yeem kos lub thawv ntawm ib sab ntawm txoj haujlwm yooj yim.

Cov npe

Nws hloov tawm tias cov cuab yeej no tau nyob ib puag ncig ntev. Nws lub npe yog ib daim ntawv teev npe. Hauv kev sib tw kom muaj txiaj ntsig, nws yooj yim kom tsis nco qab qhov ntawd koj tuaj yeem ua tsis tau tsuas yog ib daim ntawv teev npe yuav tsum ua … Nws tsuas yog lub luag haujlwm rau peb ua. Koj tuaj yeem ua thiab yuav tsum ua cov npe rau txhua theem ntawm kev xav … Cia peb saib ntawm txhua daim ntawv teev npe no.

1. Cov npe ntawm cov phooj ywg, cov txheeb ze, cov neeg paub zoo

Cov neeg no ua rau peb ib puag ncig tam sim no lossis tuaj yeem ua ib qho. Kuv saib daim ntawv no nyob nruab nrab. Kev hu peb-feeb rau ib tus phooj ywg qub yog qhov zoo rau kev rov kho dua ntawm cov khoom ntawm cov npe yuav tsum ua. Yog koj ntshai tham ces xa xov tuaj. Cov neeg koj hlub yuav txaus siab rau qhov koj xav txog lawv.

Nws yog qhov tsim nyog los saib rau hauv daim ntawv teev npe no thaum npaj koj so haujlwm, kom koj muaj tuam txhab. Yog, yog, koj kuj yuav tsum npaj koj lub caij so. Nws tsis yog kuv tus uas hais qhov no, tab sis Gleb Arkhangelsky.

2. Xav-list

Cov npe ntawm kev xav rau lub ntiaj teb cov khoom siv. Tsis txhob cuam tshuam nrog daim ntawv teev npe khoom lossis cov hom phiaj ntev xws li yuav tsheb / tsim tsev. Qhov tsis tshua siv ntawm tag nrho kuv cov npe. Kuv tsuas muaj ib daim ntawv teev cov txuas. Daim ntawv thov: muab rau cov phooj ywg ua ntej hnub so lossis saib thaum kawg ntawm lub hli yuav siv dab tsi ntawm cov nyiaj tau los. Qee zaum koj yuav tsum indulge koj tus kheej nrog yam koj tsis xav tau, tab sis tsuas yog xav tau.

3. Cov npe ua tau

Can-do yog cov npe ntawm koj cov kev xaiv. Los ntawm kev sau nws hauv ib qho xwm txheej, peb txo peb txoj kev ntxhov siab. Piv txwv li, thawj hnub ua haujlwm, tsis muaj leej twg paub yuav ua li cas. Tsis muaj kev ua haujlwm, tsuas yog kev ntshai ntawm kev tiv thaiv lawv. Tau ua ib daim ntawv teev npe ua tau, koj yuav paub meej tias koj ua tau dab tsi. Kev paub txog cov npoj yaig, teeb tsa lub khoos phis tawj ua haujlwm - cov no yog ob peb yam ntawm cov npe no.

4. Daim ntawv teev cov txuj ci

Daim ntawv teev txuj ci, lossis daim ntawv teev txuj ci, yog ib daim ntawv teev cov peev xwm uas koj xav kom txawv nrog. Cov peev txheej yuav tsum tau tswj kom zoo. Piv txwv li, yog tias koj xav kom muaj peev xwm thaij duab, ces koj yuav tsum tsis txhob kawm qhov no xwb, tsis tsuas yog khaws koj lub koob yees duab hauv kev ua haujlwm zoo, tab sis kuj ua tsis tu ncua.

Yog koj xav hais lus Askiv, hais lus. Tsis muaj ib qho tseem ceeb hauv kev sau ntawv "kawm lus Askiv" yuav tsum ua thaum koj tsis xav tau kev txawj no.

5. Daim ntawv teev cov nqi

Ib tug neeg uas muaj kev puas siab puas ntsws yuav tsis muaj npe nyob rau hauv daim ntawv ntawm cov kab lus paub daws teeb meem: "kev noj qab haus huv", "kev ua haujlwm", "kev noj qab haus huv", "tsev neeg". Cov lus no tau ntev tau muab tshem tawm los ntawm kev siv txhua hnub. Cov npe ntawm qhov tseem ceeb yuav tsum muaj cov duab tiag tiag uas thawb koj mus rau pem hauv ntej. Rau qee tus, cov lus hais lossis cov lus hais tau zoo dua, rau lwm tus - duab. Yog tias koj muaj teeb meem ua cov npe zoo li no, nyeem kuv tsab xov xwm peb xyoos dhau los. Qee qhov ntawm kuv qhov tseem ceeb tau hloov pauv thaum lub sijhawm no. Nws yuav tsum yog li ntawd. Cov nqi hloov pauv, thiab ua li cas rau koj.

6. Sau npe

Muaj zog tshaj ntawm tag nrho cov npe. Nws pab cov lus nug ntawm kev txheeb xyuas tus kheej, teb cov lus nug "Kuv yog leej twg?" Koj sau rau ntawm daim ntawv teev npe uas koj xav ua, koj ua lub luag haujlwm dab tsi txhua hnub. Yuav kom qhia meej, peb tab tom tham txog cov luag haujlwm hauv zej zog uas "ua, tsis zoo li".

Yog tias koj muaj "tus tub" yam khoom hauv koj daim ntawv teev npe, ces koj niam koj txiv yuav hnov koj lub suab hauv xov tooj lossis ntawm lub qhov rooj. Cov khoom "tus kws tshaj lij zoo" yuav ceeb toom koj kom nkag mus rau cov kab lus "Nyeem phau ntawv tshiab" hauv qhov yuav tsum ua, thiab koj yuav nyeem nws tiag.

Koj yuav pom yuav ua li cas muab tag nrho cov luag haujlwm xav tau, lossis hla cov uas koj tsis xav tau. Piv txwv li, "siv" ploj ntawm kuv daim ntawv teev npe. Nws raug yuam los ntawm kev xav nkag siab txog poj niam. Cov khoom "tsev neeg zoo" thiab "tus txiv hlub" tau hloov nws.

Txhawm rau muab cov khoom sib xyaw ua ke, koj tuaj yeem siv lub sijhawm txwv. Ua ib tus kws sau ntawv rau ob teev yog kev txhawb siab ntau dua li sau ib tsab xov xwm rau Lifehacker hauv 120 feeb. Tej zaum siv qhov chaw sib txawv yuav pab tau koj. Hauv chaw ua haujlwm - tus thawj coj nruj thiab tsis sib haum xeeb, tsom mus rau cov txiaj ntsig; nyob hauv tsev - ib tug neeg mob thiab hlub tsev neeg. Ntau tus neeg ua ke sib txawv lub luag haujlwm yam tsis paub txog nws. Sim ua qhov no txhob txwm ua.

7. Daim ntawv teev cov hom phiaj mus sij hawm ntev, cov npe ntawm koj txoj haujlwm

Cov npe nyuaj tshaj plaws. Ntau tus kws sau ntawv sau txog qhov tseem ceeb ntawm lub hom phiaj mus sij hawm ntev, txhua tus hais txog lawv txawv. Thiab lawv txhua tus tsis nco qab xav txog qhov tseem ceeb npaum li cas rau txhua lub hom phiaj mus sij hawm ntev, kev nkag siab ntawm lub npe ntawm dab tsi ua tiav nws … Yog tsis muaj qhov no, lub hom phiaj tsuas yog yuav tsis dhau los ua qhov tseeb.

Siv tag nrho cov npe

Ntxiv rau daim ntawv teev npe yuav tsum ua, kuv tau qhia rau koj txog xya lub npe tshiab. Rau qee tus, tswj cov npe ntxiv yuav zoo li tsis tsim nyog ua haujlwm. Tsuas yog peb khaws cov npe no thiab yog li ntawd, peb tsuas yog tsis paub nws. Peb lub hlwb nco ntsoov txhua yam: lub mini-hais lus rau iPhone, thiab tshuaj xyuas ntawm phau ntawv zoo ntawm kev yees duab, thiab cov lus txhawb siab, thiab lub npe menyuam yaus uas koj cov npoj yaig tau muab rau koj. Cov lus nug yog seb koj puas yuav tso siab rau koj lub siab lub ntsws kom khaws cov npe no lossis koj puas yuav ua kom paub meej.

Txhua daim ntawv teev npe no tau tshwm sim hauv peb tus cwj pwm, hauv peb cov npe ua. Kuv yuav muab piv txwv ntawm kev sib txuas hauv kuv li:

• Lub hom phiaj ntev: phau ntawv.
• To-be: writer.
• Tus nqi: qhia kev paub, kev xav.
• Muaj peev xwm: sau tau zoo.
• Ua-ua: tau txais cov lus teb los ntawm cov neeg nyeem; nyeem phau ntawv / cov ntawv hauv cov qauv zoo.
• To-do: tsab xov xwm ntawm Lifehacker txog daim duab peb sab ntawm lub neej; rho tawm ib tsab xov xwm hais txog yuav tsum ua; nyeem tas U. Zisner "Yuav ua li cas sau tau zoo."
• Xav-list: bluetooth keyboard rau iPad.

Yog tias koj cov npe sib cuam tshuam, ces koj yuav muaj teeb meem tsawg dua uas kuv tau tham txog thaum pib ntawm tsab xov xwm.

Vim li cas nws ua haujlwm

Robert Dilts pyramid hloov kev txhawb siab los ntawm lub ntsiab lus ntawm lub neej thiab kev txiav txim siab rau tus kheej mus rau kev ua yeeb yam. Nws yog qhov nyuaj heev rau lub hlwb kom rov sib haum xeeb txhua qib hauv ob peb teev, raws li tau hais los ntawm kev kho mob hlwb lossis NLP. Yog li ntawd, nws tsis tuaj yeem siv Dilts 'ua haujlwm hauv lub neej txhua hnub. Rov tsim kho lub siab lub ntsws txhua hnub yog qhov teeb meem - nws ua rau tsis muaj kev ntxhov siab. Tab sis yuav ua li cas, vim tias koj xav tau kev ua haujlwm tas li ntawm koj tus kheej? Rau qhov no, nws yog qhov tsim nyog los faib lub neej mus rau hauv cov npe sib txawv. Nyob rau tib lub sijhawm, koj yuav ua tiav ob qho kev pom tseeb hauv txhua qhov ntawm lawv, thiab sib xws ntawm lawv.

Xaus

Txhawm rau ua kom koj daim ntawv teev npe yuav tsum ua haujlwm, khaws cov npe. Khaws cov npe sib txawv … Ua rau lawv sib cuam tshuam. Qhov no yuav tiv thaiv koj los ntawm kev tig mus rau hauv zaub rau pem hauv ntej ntawm koj lub TV lossis computer. Txoj kev no koj yuav tsis dhau los ua tus soulless neeg hlau tshem tawm haujlwm tom qab ua haujlwm los ntawm kev ua. Txoj kev no koj yuav yog tus neeg ua tiav koj lub hom phiaj, tswj koj lub neej thiab pom lub ntsiab lus hauv nws.