Yog vim li cas peb ib txwm nrhiav ib tug scapegoat thiab liam tej yam mob ntawm kev nyuaj siab

2024 Tus sau: Malcolm Clapton | [email protected]. Kawg hloov kho: 2023-12-17 03:58

Peb ua kom yooj yim phenomena vim qhov yuam kev ntawm kev xav.

Wb hais tias koj mob hniav. Ua ntej tshaj plaws, koj yuav xav tias koj tau noj cov khoom qab zib ntau dhau lawm, uas yog vim li cas cov hniav lwj tau tshwm sim. Tab sis lwm yam tseem ceeb kuj ua rau muaj teeb meem ntawm kev kho hniav: kev tu lub qhov ncauj tsis zoo (lossis tsis muaj), cov qauv ntawm cov hniav, cov qaub ncaug, thiab cov xwm txheej ntawm lub cev. Piav qhov tshwm sim zoo li ib yam, koj poob rau hauv qhov ntxiab ntawm ib qho laj thawj. Cia peb xav seb vim li cas qhov no tshwm sim.

Nws zoo li peb tias txhua qhov kev tshwm sim muaj qhov chaw pib

Qhov tseeb, qhov no tsis tshwm sim. Cov xwm txheej tau cuam tshuam los ntawm tag nrho cov laj thawj. Txawm li cas los xij, peb nyiam oversimplify: yam X ua ntej qhov xwm txheej Y, uas txhais tau hais tias qhov no tsuas yog qhov ua rau. Txawm hais tias qhov tseeb, yam A, B thiab C kuj tau pab Y.

Zoo li lwm yam kev paub tsis meej, ib qho laj thawj ntxiab ua rau peb lub neej yooj yim dua. Lub hlwb qhia txog ib qho ua rau peb muaj peev xwm tswj tau, thiab tsom mus rau nws. Lwm yam ntawm cov xwm txheej raug lees paub tias tsis tseem ceeb lossis tsis quav ntsej kiag li.

Tom qab ua tsis tiav ntawm kev sib koom ua lag luam, peb tab tom nrhiav ib tus neeg ua txhaum. Tom qab qee qhov xwm txheej - ib qho laj thawj uas yuav piav qhia txhua yam. Yog tias peb hnov qhov tsis zoo ntawm lub cev lossis kev xav, peb ua rau nws nyuaj siab. Yog tias peb pom muaj teeb meem kev noj qab haus huv, peb liam tias kev noj zaub mov tsis zoo thiab pib noj cov vitamins.

Txhua qhov xwm txheej muaj ntau qhov laj thawj, thiab lub luag haujlwm rau qhov tshwm sim tau poob rau ntau tus neeg, uas nws cov kev txiav txim siab coj mus rau qhov kawg.

Cov xov xwm feem ntau txhawb qhov kev paub tsis meej ntawm peb. "Dab tsi yog qhov ua rau muaj teeb meem kev lag luam?", "Dab tsi ua rau muaj kev tsis sib haum xeeb?", "Qhov xwm txheej twg ua rau lub tuam txhab ua tiav?", "X ua rau mob qog noj ntshav!" - Peb hnov cov lus no txhua lub sijhawm. Thiab lawv txhua tus hais tias cov xwm txheej tuaj yeem piav qhia hauv ib kab lus yooj yim.

Thiab qhov no tsis pub peb nkag siab txog qhov teeb meem

Tau xaiv cov lus piav qhia yooj yim no, peb tsis txheeb xyuas qhov teeb meem kiag li, peb tsis tab tom nrhiav kev daws teeb meem nyuaj. Piv txwv li, tom qab cov xwm txheej ntawm kev tua hauv tsev kawm ntawv, cov neeg sau xov xwm feem ntau sib cav txog qhov ua rau tus neeg tua neeg ua: qhov xwm txheej hauv tsev neeg, kev ua si hauv computer ua phem, kev ntxhov siab ntawm tsev kawm ntawv, muaj phom, lossis lwm yam. Txawm hais tias nws muaj feem ntau tias ntau qhov laj thawj no tau tuaj ua ke ib zaug.

Cov kev xav zoo li no ua rau muaj ntau yam kev nkag siab tsis zoo thiab kev tsis sib haum xeeb, kev ua yuam kev hauv tshuaj thiab kev kawm. Piv txwv li, ntau tus hais tias qhov tseem ceeb ntawm kev rog thaum menyuam yaus yog khoom noj ceev. Thiab yog tias koj txwv cov menyuam yaus noj nws, qhov teeb meem yuav raug daws.

Tab sis qhov tseeb, qhov no tsuas yog ib feem piav txog qhov xwm txheej.

Cov nom tswv siv qhov kev xav tsis zoo no los ntawm kev thuam cov teeb meem nyuaj hauv zej zog xws li se thiab kev lag luam, cov neeg nplua nuj thiab cov neeg pluag, kev sib deev tsawg thiab cov neeg tsiv teb tsaws chaw, cov ntseeg thiab tsis ntseeg Vajtswv. Txawm li cas los xij, cov teeb meem hauv zej zog yog qhov nyuaj dhau los piav qhia los ntawm ib qho laj thawj. Muaj ntau yam khoom thiab kev sib cuam tshuam ntawm lawv pab.

Tab sis lub ntxiab tuaj yeem tawm tsam

• Nco ntsoov koj tus kheej ntawm qhov kev xav yuam kev no. Thaum txiav txim siab dab tsi coj mus rau ib qho kev tshwm sim, tsis txhob oversimplify lub laj thawj.
• Sau txhua yam ua tau. Cia ib lossis ob ntawm lawv cuam tshuam qhov tshwm sim ntau dua, tab sis qhov no tsis txhais hais tias lawv yog tib leeg xwb.
• Thaum ib yam dab tsi tsis kaj siab tshwm sim, tsis txhob maj mus liam ib tug rau qhov tshwm sim. Txheeb xyuas lwm yam yuav tsum tau ua ua ntej rau qhov kev tshwm sim, xav txog qhov xwm txheej tam sim no kom tiav.

Kev quav yeeb quav tshuaj, mob qog noj ntshav, mob hlwb thiab kev puas siab puas ntsws, kev sov siab thoob ntiaj teb thiab kev kub ntxhov ntawm kev lag luam yog tag nrho cov xwm txheej nyuaj rau ib qho laj thawj sim nkag siab. Saib dav dua, nrhiav lwm yam yuav tsum tau ua ua ntej kom tau tag nrho cov duab tawm ntawm lawv. Thiab tsis txhob hnov qab qhia lwm tus txog qhov no. Tej zaum yuav muaj kev sib cav me ntsis tsis meej pem.