10 yuam kev uas tua kev sib raug zoo nyob rau hauv lub paj

2024 Tus sau: Malcolm Clapton | [email protected]. Kawg hloov kho: 2023-12-17 03:58

Koj nyuam qhuav nkag mus rau hauv ib qho kev nthuav xov xwm los yog mus rau thawj hnub, thiab mam li nco dheev tus contender rau lub npe ntawm lub thib ob ib nrab muab ib tug tig los ntawm lub rooj vag. Cov lus nug tam sim ntawd tshwm sim: dab tsi tsis yog? Cov kws paub txog kev sib raug zoo sau ntau yam ua tau.

1. Koj tsis saib xyuas koj tus kheej zoo

Qhov no suav nrog ua pa tsis zoo, lub cev tsw, thiab lwm yam cim ntawm kev tu cev tsis zoo - feem ntau, txhua yam uas tam sim ntawd hloov lwm tus neeg ntawm koj mus.

Terri Orbuch yog tus kws sau ntawv kev sib raug zoo hu ua Tus Kws Kho Mob Kev Hlub rau nws qhov kev tshwm sim hauv xov xwm.

Yog tias koj tsis xyaum kev tu cev zoo, lwm tus yuav txiav txim siab txog koj txoj kev sib raug zoo. Tom qab tag nrho, yog tias koj tsis muaj sijhawm, lub zog, lossis kev nyiam saib xyuas koj tus kheej, yog vim li cas koj thiaj xav txog lwm tus?

2. Koj thuam lossis sim tswj

Tib neeg tsis nyiam raug qhia tias yuav ua li cas, tshwj xeeb tshaj yog thaum pib ntawm kev sib raug zoo. Nws zoo li presumptuous.

Terry Orbuch: "Feem ntau, qhov tsis zoo thiab kev thuam thaum pib tsis yog qhov nyiam tib neeg. Lawv nyiam qhov txawv: qhov zoo thiab kev qhuas!"

3. Koj xav tau kev xav

Hal Runkel yog kev sib yuav thiab tsev neeg kho mob.

Cov neeg tsis nyiam los txhawb cov neeg uas txhawb nqa lawv tsis tu ncua.

4. Koj muaj kev nyuaj siab heev

Tsis tas li ntawd, tib neeg tsis nyiam tas li xav tias koj tuaj yeem raug mob tsis txaus ntseeg, hais tias Runkel.

5. Koj tsis paub ntawv

Raws li Singles nyob rau hauv Dating Scene Xav Zoo Hniav, Suave Cov plaub hau & Cov qauv sau ntawv zoo [Survey]. ua nyob rau hauv 2013 ntawm 5 txhiab tus neeg, kev paub ntawm cov qauv sau ntawv yog ib qho ntawm thawj yam uas tib neeg tau saib xyuas thaum xaiv ib khub.

Helen Fisher yog tus kws tshawb fawb keeb kwm yav dhau los thiab tus kws tshaj lij kws tshaj lij rau kev sib tham ntawm Match.com.

Cov qauv sau ntawv tsis zoo qhia tau tias tus khub muaj peev xwm muaj kev kawm tsis zoo lossis tsis xav tias nws tsim nyog txhua.

6. Koj tsis paub tseeb ntawm koj tus kheej

Tib qhov kev tshawb fawb pom tias kev ntseeg siab yog qhov tseem ceeb thaum xaiv tus khub.

Helen Fisher: "Cov neeg uas tsis muaj kev nyab xeeb feem ntau muaj kev ntxhov siab thiab tsis muaj kev puas siab puas ntsws."

7. Koj cov hniav tsis zoo

Tsis tas li ntawd, cov neeg teb rau qhov kev tshawb fawb no tau tshaj tawm tias lawv tau mob siab rau cov hniav ntawm tus khub muaj peev xwm. Yog hais tias lawv tsis yog tag nrho, ces nws nyob rau hauv kev noj haus tsis zoo los yog muaj teeb meem kev noj qab haus huv.

Helen Fisher: "Peb tau hloov zuj zus mus nrhiav kev kawm, lub hlwb thiab lub cev noj qab haus huv cov neeg koom tes - cov neeg muaj cov noob zoo thiab kev loj hlob zoo, uas yuav pab dhau peb DNA mus rau yav tom ntej. Cov koom tes muaj peev xwm uas tsis muaj cov npe teev npe zoo li yuav yog cov neeg sib tw tsis tseem ceeb rau qhov no. Yog li peb tsis lees paub lawv qhov kev xav."

8. Koj yog tus kheej heev

Cov neeg uas tsuas xav txog lawv tus kheej yog cov khub tsis zoo vim lawv tsis quav ntsej txog lwm tus txoj kev xav. Tsis tas li ntawd, lawv feem ntau tsis saib xyuas thiab qia dub hauv txaj.

Joseph Burgo yog tus kws kho mob hlwb thiab tus sau ntawm Beware, Narcissist! Yuav ua li cas nrog cov narcissistic hom."

Kev sib raug zoo ntawm kev sib raug zoo yog hais txog kev sib raug zoo, qhov kev xav tau ntawm txhua tus khub tseem ceeb. Tsis muaj leej twg xav ua lwm tus neeg saib txhua lub sijhawm.

9. Koj yog ib tug neeg saib tsis taus

Tau kawg, kev sib raug zoo yuav tsum yog qhov chaw nyab xeeb uas cov neeg koom tes tuaj yeem qhia lawv cov kev txhawj xeeb. Tab sis qee tus tau mob siab rau nws, tsom ntsoov rau qhov tsis zoo thiab xaus ua lub nra rau lwm tus.

Joseph Burgo: “Tshwj xeeb tshaj yog nyob rau theem pib ntawm kev sib raug zoo, peb yuav tsum qhia cov kev paub zoo, kev sib koom ua ke uas txhawb kev sib raug zoo thiab npaj peb mus ntsib cov teeb meem yav tom ntej. Yog hais tias ib tug neeg siv kev sib raug zoo raws li ib tug pov tseg rau cov kev xav phem, ces lwm tus tsis muaj laj thawj mus ntxiv."

10. Koj saib tsis taus

Kev ntxub ntxaug yog qhia nyob rau hauv qhov tseeb tias ib tug ntawm cov neeg koom tes xav tias superior rau lwm tus thiab pib coj tus cwj pwm tsuas yog qias neeg. Nws hnyav taw qhia txog qhov tsis zoo ntawm lwm tus lossis cuam tshuam kev pom, thuam thiab hais lus tsis txaus ntseeg - los ntawm thiab loj qhia tus cwj pwm lom.

Michael McNulty yog tus kws qhia thiab kws kho mob hlwb tshwj xeeb hauv cov teeb meem kev sib raug zoo.

Kev ntxub ntxaug yog qhov txawv ntawm kev ua siab zoo. Kev saib tsis taus yog zoo li nchuav kua qaub rau kev hlub thiab tua kev sib raug zoo.

Thiab dab tsi tuaj yeem tua koj lub txim thaum koj ntsib? Qhia koj cov lus teb hauv cov lus.