2024 Tus sau: Malcolm Clapton | [email protected]. Kawg hloov kho: 2023-12-17 03:58
Tsis txhob maj mus da dej tus interlocutor nrog kev sib cav. Zoo dua pib nrog lwm yam.
Ua ntej, nco ntsoov qhov twg tus neeg yog, thiab tom qab ntawd qhia koj qhov kev xav. Txoj hauv kev no tau npaj los ntawm tus kws lej nto moo thiab tus kws tshawb fawb Blaise Pascal. Txhawm rau kom ntseeg tau ib tus neeg, nws tau qhia kom saib cov ntaub ntawv los ntawm sab ntawm tus neeg sib tw, qhia kev tsis pom zoo thiab cia nws hloov siab.
Nov yog qhov nws sau hauv nws phau ntawv "Xav": "Yog tias koj xav sib cav tsis yog qhov tsis muaj txiaj ntsig thiab ua kom tus neeg sib tham, ua ntej ntawm tag nrho, nkag siab rau koj tus kheej uas nws mus txog qhov kev tsis sib haum xeeb, vim nws feem ntau pom sab no. kom raug, ces lees nws tias nws yog thiab txoj cai muaj qhia tias thaum mus los ntawm lwm sab, txoj cai tam sim ntawd hloov mus rau qhov tsis ncaj ncees lawm. Koj tus interlocutor yuav txaus siab rau koj, vim nws tsis ua yuam kev, nws tsuas yog tsis pom ib yam dab tsi."
Tib neeg thaum lawv qhia lawv yuam kev. Cov lus hais zoo li lawv yog tus kheej tawm tsam rau lawv, kev thuam ntawm lawv tus cwj pwm thiab kev txawj ntse. Tom qab ntawd, yuav luag tsis muaj kev koom tes. Yog li ntawd, thawj zaug hais txog dab tsi lwm tus neeg yog txoj cai. Thiab ces taw tes rau sab ntawm qhov teeb meem uas nws tsis tau pom. Muab nws cov ntaub ntawv uas yuav coj nws mus rau nws tus kheej paub txog qhov tsis ncaj ncees lawm. Txoj kev no koj yuav zam kev sib cav sib ceg.
Cov lus sib cav uas ib tug neeg xav txog nws tus kheej feem ntau zoo li nws ntseeg ntau dua li cov uas tuaj rau hauv lub siab ntawm lwm tus.
Blaise Pascal tus lej thiab philosopher
Psychology xibfwb ntawm University of Texas Arthur Markman piav qhia yuav ua li cas siv Pascal cov lus qhia hauv kev xyaum.
"Yuav kom tus interlocutor hloov nws lub siab, ua ntej ntawm tag nrho cov, koj yuav tsum tau tua nws tiv thaiv tiv thaiv," hais tias Markman. - Yog tias koj qhia ib tus neeg tam sim ntawd qhov nws ua yuam kev, nws yuav tsis muaj kev txhawb siab los koom tes nrog koj. Ua ntej, pom zoo nrog nws cov lus xaus, paub meej tias lawv qhov tseem ceeb. Tam sim no nws xav koom tes nrog koj. Qhov no yuav muab sijhawm rau koj los qhia koj cov kev txhawj xeeb txog qhov teeb meem hauv kev sib tham."
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