Catcalling: vim li cas cov poj niam xuav xuav ntawm txoj kev thiab yuav ua li cas rau nws

2024 Tus sau: Malcolm Clapton | [email protected]. Kawg hloov kho: 2023-12-17 03:58

Kev thab plaub tsis yog kev qhuas.

Dab tsi yog catcalling

Xyoo 2014, ib qho yeeb yaj kiab tau tshaj tawm hauv YouTube uas tau txais yuav luag 50 lab views thiab mus kis. Ib tug poj niam, hnav ris tsho dub yooj yim thiab lub tsho dub kaw, taug kev ncig New York rau 10 teev ua ke, thiab cov neeg txawv txawv xuav nws nraub qaum, sim ua kom paub, stalk thiab hnyav cov lus qhuas zoo li "Hav, kev zoo nkauj !" thiab "Smile!" Cov qhab nia hais tias nyob rau hauv 10 teev tus heroine tau txais ntau tshaj 100 yam tsis tau caw. Txoj kev thab plaub uas pom hauv daim vis dis aus tseem hu ua catcalling.

Feem ntau, nws yog to taub raws li hais lus thab plaub los ntawm cov neeg txawv:

• lus tsis zoo thiab qw;
• xuav;
• clatter, smacking, sim hu ib tug poj niam zoo li miv - nrog kev pab los ntawm lub suab "kis-kis-kis";
• muab kev sib deev;
• greasy compliments thiab kev ntsuam xyuas ntawm qhov tsos, tshwj xeeb tshaj yog ntawm qee qhov ntawm lub cev;
• siv lub tsheb teeb liab;
• pheej sim mus sib paub.

Tab sis nyob rau hauv ib tug dav dav, qhov no feem ntau yog ib hom kev thab plaub nyob rau hauv pej xeem qhov chaw. Xws li:

• kev ua qias neeg;
• ua qauv qhia ntawm qhov chaw mos;
• kev nrhiav;
• sim thaiv txoj kev, ntes, tuav tes;
• tsis xav kov, lub cev aggression.

Catcalling tuaj yeem ntsib ntawm txoj kev, hauv kev thauj mus los hauv pej xeem, hauv chaw ua si, hauv tsev noj mov lossis tsev noj mov, hauv bar lossis club, thiab feem ntau muaj cov neeg.

Leej twg ntsib catcalling

Ib txoj kev tshawb fawb hauv xyoo 2014 hauv Asmeskas tau pom tias 65% ntawm cov poj niam thiab 25% ntawm cov txiv neej yuav tsum tau nyiaj dhau txoj kev thab plaub tsawg kawg ib zaug. Lwm qhov kev tshawb fawb loj, tau ua los ntawm cov neeg nyob hauv 42 lub nroog thoob ntiaj teb, qhia tau tias muaj tus lej txaus ntshai: txog li 95% ntawm cov poj niam raug thab plaub los ntawm cov neeg txawv tebchaws.

Lub hnub nyoog ntawm cov neeg raug tsim txom nws txawv. Cov poj niam feem ntau, raws li ob qhov kev tshawb fawb no, thawj zaug ntsib qee yam kev hu xov tooj thaum lawv muaj hnub nyoog qis dua 17 xyoo. Qee tus neeg raug tsim txom tseem tsis tau muaj hnub nyoog 11. Tweets muab tso rau hauv qab hashtag #firsttimeharrassed kuj hais txog qhov no.

Tej zaum koj yuav xav tias kev thab plaub yog provoked los ntawm cov khaub ncaws defiant, tab sis qhov no tsis yog li ntawd. Cov poj niam nyob rau hauv ntev dresses thiab hijab, thiab nyob rau hauv kaw outerwear, ntsib catcalling. Piv txwv li, nws tau tshwm sim nrog tus thawj tswj hwm ntawm Lifehacker Polina Nakrainikova, uas tau tawm mus rau hauv txoj kev hnav khaub ncaws thiab daim npog ntsej muag, tab sis tseem tau khiav mus rau qhov tsis tau txais kev pom zoo.

Tsis tas li, cov neeg raug tsim txom, suav nrog kev thab plaub hauv kev, sau txog lawv cov kev paub dhau los hauv qab hashtags #catcalling, #catcallingisnotok, #streetharassment, #I_need_publicity.

Ua inscriptions ntawm asphalt

Chalk Back flash mob (kev ua si ntawm cov lus, uas txhais tau tias "sau hauv chalk rov qab") tau tsim thiab tsim los ntawm tus neeg ua haujlwm Sophie Sendberg. Cov neeg koom nrog tawm cov lus nyob rau ntawm txoj kev - cov lus thiab kab lus uas cov neeg saib xyuas txoj kev siv los hais rau lawv. Muaj cov lus tsis raug cai: "Poj niam zoo nkauj!", "Cia peb sib tham." Tab sis muaj ntau yam txaus ntshai thiab frankly: hem ntawm rape, thab plaub, tua neeg. Cov ntawv sau tau ua raws nraim qhov xwm txheej tshwm sim. Qhov no yog ib qho kev sim ua kom txaj muag rau tus neeg ua txhaum, kos xim rau qhov teeb meem thiab muab belated tab sis rebuff.

Tso dag txog qhov teeb meem

Xyoo 2019, ntawm kev ua yeeb yam feminist "Eva's Ribs", lawv tau nthuav tawm cov yeeb yaj kiab lom zem los ntawm Daria Alahonchich txog yuav ua li cas rau kev hu xov tooj. Nws tau pom zoo, piv txwv li, ua txuj ua neeg tuag, ya mus nrog cua, lossis seev cev seev cev.

Kev tso dag tso tseg, tab sis tus cwj pwm no tuaj yeem ua rau tsis muaj kev ntxhov siab rau txoj kev thab plaub.

Cov ntawv tshaj tawm

Piv txwv li, raws li cov kws sau ntawv ntawm qhov kev txiav txim no. Lawv tshaj tawm portraits ntawm cov poj niam, uas yog nrog los ntawm cov lus hais tias "Kuv lub npe tsis yog ib tug me nyuam", "Kuv tshuav koj dab tsi", "Txiv neej tsis yog tus tswv ntawm txoj kev."

Qhia lwm tus poj niam kom tiv thaiv kev thab plaub

Cov neeg tawm tsam ntawm Stand by tiv thaiv txoj kev thab plaub kev txav mus los ua kev cob qhia uas lawv piav qhia rau cov neeg mloog yuav ua li cas teb rau kev thab plaub thiab tawm tsam cov neeg ua txhaum cai. Nyob rau hauv Russia, feminists kuj qee zaum muaj cov xwm txheej zoo sib xws, tab sis tseem tsis tau txuas ntxiv mus: hauv peb lub teb chaws, qhov teeb meem ntawm catcalling tsis tau tham dav dav.

Yuav ua li cas yog tias koj raug thab plaub

Holly Curl thiab Debjani Roy muab kev cob qhia rau cov poj niam ntsib kev thab plaub. Lawv tau tshaj tawm cov lus pom zoo los ntawm lawv txoj haujlwm nrog Kev Lag Luam Insider.

Xyuas kom koj tsis txhob muaj kev phom sij

Qhov tseem ceeb yog kev nyab xeeb. Yog tias tsis muaj ib tus neeg nyob ze uas tuaj yeem tiv thaiv koj, thiab muaj ntau tus neeg ua txhaum lossis lawv muaj zog dua koj, qaug dej qaug cawv, ua phem, qhov tsim nyog tshaj plaws yuav tsum tawm lossis khiav tawm, thiab sai li sai tau. Nrhiav qhov chaw muaj neeg coob coob thiab muaj teeb pom kev zoo, lawg lub tsheb tavxij, thov kev pab, hu rau tub ceev xwm, ua txuj tias koj tus txiv lossis tus khub hu koj - hauv ib lo lus, ua txhua yam kom nce qhov deb nrog cov neeg ua phem.

Ua qhov muag pom

Yog tias qhov xwm txheej zoo li tsis txaus ntshai rau koj thiab koj tseem txiav txim siab sawv ntsug rau koj tus kheej, cov kws qhia pom zoo kom koj saib kev thab plaub ntawm lub qhov muag nrog lub ntsej muag ruaj khov thiab ntseeg siab (ntau npaum li ua tau). Nws zoo nkaus li tsis yooj yim, tab sis qhov muag tsis pom kev tuaj yeem cuam tshuam kev khav theeb ntawm tus neeg ua txhaum thiab ua rau koj xav txog qhov nws hais thiab ua.

Hais lus zoo tab sis khov kho

Tsis txhob sim lis los yog, hloov pauv, mus rau kev thuam: qhov no tuaj yeem ua rau muaj kev ua phem, nrog rau lub cev. Hais nrov nrov tias koj tsis nyiam dab tsi tshwm sim, thov kom tso koj ib leeg, nqis ib sab, tshem koj txhais tes.

Lwm qhov ua kom yuam kev yog nug tus neeg ua phem kom rov hais dua qhov nws nyuam qhuav hais. Los ntawm lub sijhawm no, kev saib xyuas ntawm cov neeg nyob ib puag ncig koj feem ntau yuav raug coj los rau koj, thiab nyob rau hauv pem hauv ntej ntawm cov neeg tuaj saib nws yuav txaj muag rov hais dua tsis muaj tseeb lossis kev thuam rau cov thab plaub.

Mus deb

Thaum koj tawm tsam thiab tau txais tus neeg aggressor kom nres nws qhov kev ua, tawm mus kom nws tsis txhob siv qhov xwm txheej zoo dua thiab tsis xav tias nws yog kev caw rau kev sib tham, kev sib cav lossis kev sib ntaus.

Yog tias koj muaj lub zog, tsis txhob nyob ntsiag to txog qhov tshwm sim rau koj. Piav kev thab plaub hauv social media, xws li cov poj niam cov zej zog uas muaj kev cai nruj thiab tsis muaj kev thab plaub, hauv pawg neeg tawm tsam kev ua phem. Yog li koj yuav tsis tsuas yog ua kom qhov teeb meem pom ntau dua, tab sis kuj tau txais kev txhawb nqa: koj yuav nkag siab tias koj tsis nyob ib leeg, koj tsis muaj dab tsi ua rau txaj muag, thiab koj tsis txhob liam rau qhov tshwm sim.