Shopaholism raws li kev kuaj mob: qhov twg yog qhov kev ntshaw rau kev yuav khoom los ntawm thiab yuav ua li cas kov yeej nws

2024 Tus sau: Malcolm Clapton | [email protected]. Kawg hloov kho: 2023-12-17 03:58

Yog tias tsuas yog kev mus ncig ua si ua rau koj muaj kev xyiv fab tiag tiag, yog tias koj tsis quav ntsej txog lub neej tiag tiag thiab nws zoo li txhua yam nyob ib puag ncig tsis muaj kev cia siab, tab sis tsuas yog hauv khw muag khoom koj yuav pom kev thaj yeeb nyab xeeb thiab kev nplij siab, nws yog lub sijhawm los suab lub tswb!

Nws tsis muaj qhov zais cia tias lub neej niaj hnub no yog cov neeg siv khoom siv. Peb ua raws li kev tso tawm cov khoom lag luam tshiab, txhua yam khoom siv, cov khaub ncaws sau. Kev yuav khoom yog qhov zoo thaum tsis muaj kev txwv kev coj ncaj ncees. Nws zoo nkaus li tias muaj nyiaj - koj yuav tsum siv nws, tsis tas yuav muab tso rau hauv lub thawv, zoo li pog ua.

Cov kab yog nyias nyias. Ib txwm muaj siab xav yuav cov khoom tsim nyog tshaj plaws (khoom noj khoom haus, khau rau lub caij, rov ua cov ntawv nplaum, vim tias cov laus zoo li qub) tuaj yeem hloov mus rau mania tau yooj yim. Thiab tom qab ntawd kev pab yuav xav tau tsis yog rau koj lub hnab nyiaj thiab koj tus kheej xwb, tab sis kuj rau cov neeg koj hlub.

Yuav ua li cas paub ib tug shopaholic

“Vajtswv, khau dab tsi! Cas ib leeg xwb!" - thiab qhov ntawd yog nws, tus neeg tuaj yeem ploj. Thaum koj nyob ze ntawm nws, koj dov koj ob lub qhov muag, nco ntsoov nws tias nws tseem muaj chav tshwj xeeb uas nws khaws cov khau yuav khoom. Hauv kev teb, koj hnov kev zam txim xws li "Tab sis nws tseem tsis tau nyob ntawm ib leeg nkaus xwb" lossis "Okay, ok, cov no yog qhov kawg," thiab feem ntau nyob rau hauv daim ntawv tsis zoo, khaus khaus.

Hnub tom qab koj pom tias nws tseem mus rau khau khiab ib leeg, vim koj tsis koom nrog nws txoj kev xyiv fab.

Tej zaum koj paub koj tus kheej hauv cov lus piav qhia no? Xav nyuaj.

Txhua yam yog tu siab tshaj qhov nws zoo li. Yog lawm, muaj ntau yam piv txwv ntawm cov neeg ua koob tsheej shopaholics uas yog, hauv paus ntsiab lus, zoo siab (Paris Hilton, Sarah Jessica Parker, Victoria Beckham thiab lwm tus), tab sis lawv siv nyiaj uas yuav tsis ua rau lawv zoo siab. Koj lub hnab nyiaj thiab lub hlwb tuaj yeem raug puas tsuaj loj yog tias qhov teeb meem tsis raug daws sai li sai tau.

Shopaholism yog tib yam kev kuaj mob xws li migraine lossis hawb pob

Oniomania (los ntawm Greek onios - "rau muag" thiab mania - "madness"), los yog shopaholism, yog ib qho tshwm sim zoo li kev mob hlwb, kev quav tshuaj. Nws suab phem lawm. Emil Kraepelin, tus kws kho mob German nto moo uas tau ua haujlwm ntawm qhov teeb meem no nrog Eugen Bleuler, thawj zaug tau qhia Vijaya Murali, Rajashree Ray, Mohammed Shaffiullha. … lo lus no nyob rau thaum xaus ntawm lub xyoo pua 19th.

Ua ke lawv xam pom cov tsos mob ntawm tus kab mob no niaj hnub no. Lawv ranked oniomania nyob rau hauv tib lub npe ntawm kev quav tshuaj: cawv, tshuaj, haus luam yeeb. Ntawd yog, thaum xub thawj nws yog ib qho kev nyiam ua haujlwm yooj yim, tom qab ntawd tau txais yuav luag lub cev txaus siab los ntawm kev yuav khoom, thiab tom qab ntawd kev tu siab thiab kev thuam hauv lawv txoj kev nyiam.

Cov kws tshaj lij Asmeskas kuj tau tig mus rau kev kawm txog qhov teeb meem. Piv txwv li, Ruth Engs ntawm Indiana hais tias Prof. Ruth Engs. … tias tib neeg nyiam qhov kev xav uas lawv tau ntsib thaum yuav khoom no lossis khoom ntawd.

Nyob rau lub sijhawm zoo li no, endorphins thiab dopamine hais lus rau peb, nws yog lawv uas tso cai rau peb sau qhov khoob thiab tsis muaj ib yam dab tsi tseem ceeb dua li lub tsho tshiab. Engs kwv yees tias 10-15% ntawm cov pej xeem yog nquag mus rau shopaholism.

Interestingly, cov txiv neej thiab cov poj niam yog inclined rau shopaholism sib npaug thiab tsis hais hnub nyoog. Stanford University kwv yees tias 6% yog poj niam thiab 5.5% yog txiv neej.

Qhov ua rau ntawm oniomania yog nyob rau hauv lub taub hau

Nws tuaj yeem muaj ntau yam laj thawj rau shopaholism: tsis muaj kev saib xyuas lossis ntau dhau ntawm nws thaum yau, kev nyuaj siab ntawm kev kho siab, kev ntxhov siab tom qab kev sib nrauj, kev tsis pom kev ntawm lub hwj chim thiab kev nplua nuj, tsis muaj kev zoo siab, lossis txawm tias kev sib deev tsis txaus siab.. Ntawm no koj yuav tau delve rau koj tus kheej.

Donald Black ntawm Iowa State University tau sau tseg hauv nws phau ntawv xov xwm Esperanza tias kwv yees li ob feem peb ntawm cov neeg uas raug kev txom nyem los ntawm cov teeb meem shopaholic muaj kev nyuaj siab thiab neuroses.

Vim li cas koj yuav tsum kov yeej koj qhov kev quav tshuaj rau kev siv nyiaj tsis tsim nyog

Tam sim no, nyob ib puag ncig ntawm lub hnab nrog lub logo ntawm zam hom, koj tsis tuaj yeem pom ntxiv dua li koj lub qhov ntswg. Xav txog seb lub sijhawm twg yog lub xyoo. Taug kev los ntawm lub tiaj ua si, taug kev ntawm cov nplooj daj uas rustle li qab ntxiag hauv qab cov khau. Tom qab tag nrho, pub cov ducks nyob rau hauv lub pas dej ua ke kom muaj kev xyiv fab rau lub zoo kawg nkaus creatures. Them mloog mus rau cov nkauj ntawm txoj kev musicians, lawv tsim ib tug tej yam yees siv cua ntawm lub nroog.

Tiamsis txhua yam no yog kev zoo siab tiag tiag!

Tseeb tiag, lub neej zoo li lub khw muag khoom noj: leej twg paub thaum twg cov khoom muaj nqis tiag tiag yuav tig mus.

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Xwm thiab ib puag ncig pab peb daws txhua yam teeb meem uas txoj hmoo cuam tshuam rau peb.

Siv cov lus qhia no thiab koj yuav hnov qhov mania rov qab

1. Pib siv koj cov nyiaj rau lub hom phiaj tseem ceeb. Cov nyiaj koj muaj tsis yog superfluous. Yog tias muaj, ua qee qhov haujlwm siab dawb! Koj yuav pom tias qhov kev xav ntawm koj tus kheej txaus siab yuav muaj zog ntau dua yog tias koj yuav lub hnab pua pua hauv kab.

2. Xa mus rau cov khoom uas twb tau yuav lawm. Tsis txhob maj muab pov tseg txhua yam koj yuav thaum lub sij hawm "dab ntxwg nyoog". Thaum kawg, sim siv txhua yam uas koj tau tswj kom tau txais koj txhais tes. Kev sim nrog cov ris tsho hnav, pleev xim, nyeem cov lus qhia rau kev siv cov cuab yeej tshwj xeeb, siv nws.

3. Ua ib daim ntawv teev cov khoom noj thiab cov khoom koj xav tau. Ua tsaug rau nws, koj yuav xav txog ib puas zaus ua ntej muab cov nyiaj tso rau hauv qhov dej dua, tsis tau txais, qhov tseeb, txaus siab tiag tiag. Koj yuav xav tias, yam tsis muaj kev sib txawv ntawm cov khoom hauv daim ntawv teev npe, koj pib hloov mus rau qhov zoo dua. Qhov no yog kev txuag zoo, thiab tseem yog ib kauj ruam ntawm kev tshem tawm shopaholism.

4. Tham nrog koj cov kev xav yuav khoom.

Vim li cas kuv thiaj tuaj ntawm no? Kuv xav tau dab tsi hauv lub khw no? Yuav ua li cas yog tias kuv tsis yuav tam sim no? Tus nqi puas phim qhov zoo?

Thiab tseem nug koj tus kheej seb cov nyiaj yuav nyob twj ywm hauv lub hnab nyiaj li cas, qhov kev yuav khoom yuav cuam tshuam li cas rau tsev neeg cov peev nyiaj, koj yuav muab cov khoom siv rau qhov twg, thaum twg koj tuaj yeem siv tau, yog tias koj muaj cov khoom zoo sib xws.

Tag nrho cov lus nug no yuav pab koj los xaus: "Kuv tsis muaj dab tsi ua ntawm no, cia lwm tus siv lawv cov nyiaj rau nws."

5. Tsis txhob ntshai tham txog koj qhov teeb meem. Yog tias koj xav tias koj tau mus deb dhau lawm, qhia koj cov kev xav rau cov neeg koj hlub, nug seb lawv xav li cas txog nws, nug cov lus qhia. Yog tias qhov no tsis pab, hu rau tus kws kho mob tshwj xeeb. Tsis muaj ib yam dab tsi phem rau kev saib xyuas koj lub hlwb.

Kev pab sau ntawv

Sim nyeem cov phau ntawv uas hais txog qhov teeb meem no, xws li Cov Neeg Siv Khoom Siv los ntawm Jean Baudrillard lossis Buyology los ntawm Martin Lindstrom. Lawv yuav qhia tias tib neeg tau hloov mus ua ib pawg ntawm cov neeg siv khoom uas tuaj yeem siv tau txiaj ntsig ntawm kev yuav khoom. Tej zaum koj yuav tsis xav muab koj cov nyiaj khwv tau los nyuaj rau cov tuam txhab tsis txaus ntseeg.

Ua pa hauv kev xav ntawm kev ywj pheej

Xav txog dab tsi ua rau koj yog ib tus neeg nyiam mus yuav khoom. Saib ib ncig: cov ntawv tshaj tawm ci ntsa iab nrog kev tshaj tawm rau cov khoom sau tshiab, cov xov tooj tshiab tau tshaj tawm txhua lub hlis. Nws yog qhov nyuaj rau kev tawm tsam, tshwj xeeb tshaj yog tias koj muaj txoj cai.

Tab sis lub ntiaj teb yog tag nrho ntawm cov xim, thiab koj yog nws cov artist.

Thiab yog tias koj pom koj tus phooj ywg hauv kab lus no, pab nws los ntawm txhua txoj kev. Nws xav tau koj ntau dua li puas tau.