Cov txheej txheem:
- Dab tsi yog qhov tseem ceeb ntawm flybag
- Vim li cas tib neeg tsis txhob khaws cov yoov tshaj cum
- Vim li cas flybagging txaus ntshai?
- Yuav ua li cas yog tias koj pheej xaiv cov neeg koom tes tsis ncaj ncees lawm
2024 Tus sau: Malcolm Clapton | [email protected]. Kawg hloov kho: 2023-12-17 03:58
Lub npe tshiab rau ib zaj dab neeg paub, thaum koj nqis los ntawm tib lub rake thiab xaiv cov neeg koom tes tsis ncaj ncees lawm.
Internet thiab niaj hnub kab lis kev cai cuam tshuam txoj kev peb tsim kev sib raug zoo. Yog vim li cas thiaj li muaj kev ntxhov siab xws li ghosting, bradcrambing, gatsbing thiab thiaj li pib tshwm sim hauv peb lub neej.
Cov xwm txheej lawv tus kheej tsis yog tshiab nkaus xwb, tab sis kev sib tham thiab chaw sib tham qhia lawv hauv lub teeb tshiab thiab ua rau lawv cuam tshuam ntau dua. Qhov no kuj yog rooj plaub nrog flybag.
Dab tsi yog qhov tseem ceeb ntawm flybag
Txhais los ntawm lus Askiv, lo lus no txhais tau tias "kom khaws cov fleas." Qhov tseeb, lo lus no tsis yog hu ua. Tab sis yog tias peb tab tom tham tshwj xeeb txog kev sib raug zoo, ces lub tswv yim ntawm "flybagging" piav txog ob qhov xwm txheej.
- Txiv neej xaiv tus khub tsis ncaj ncees lawm ib zaug ntxiv. Ntxiv mus, nws feem ntau nkag siab qhov no zoo kawg nkaus, tab sis tseem txuas ntxiv mus koom nrog kev sib raug zoo tsis muaj kev cia siab.
- Ib tug neeg tas li converges thiab tsis pom zoo nrog tib tus khub uas tsis haum nws. Kev sib raug zoo tsis coj kev xyiv fab thiab tig mus rau hauv lub voj voog ntawm kev sib cav, kev tsis txaus siab, kev sib cais thiab kev sib haum xeeb. Tab sis nws yog tsis yooj yim sua kom txiav lawv tawm ib zaug thiab rau tag nrho cov.
Lub sij hawm "flybagging" tshwm sim ua tsaug rau lub eponymous TV series Fleabag, qhov twg lub cim tseem ceeb dua thiab rov xaiv cov txiv neej, ib tug txaus ntshai tshaj lwm yam, thiab raug kev txom nyem los ntawm no kev sib raug zoo.
Qhov teeb meem no muaj ntau heev. 50% ntawm cov neeg siv kev sib tham hauv Asmeskas tau hais tias lawv tau paub cov neeg tsis ncaj ncees lawm ntau zaus.
Vim li cas tib neeg tsis txhob khaws cov yoov tshaj cum
Cov kws paub txog kev sib raug zoo muaj ntau txoj kev xav.
1. Lawv tsis paub lawv tus kheej
Nyob rau hauv qhov tob ntawm nws tus ntsuj plig, ib tug neeg ntseeg hais tias nws tsis zoo txaus (zoo nkauj, ntse, nthuav) - thiab tsis tsim nyog tus khub tsim nyog. Yog li ntawd, nws tam sim ntawd txiav tawm cov neeg sib tw ib txwm muaj kev ntshai tias lawv yuav tsis saib nws cov kev taw qhia.
2. Lawv tau pom cov yeeb yam hauv TV txaus
Txawm melodrama koj suav nrog, koj yuav tsis pom kev sib raug zoo thiab kev sib raug zoo nyob ntawd. Tab sis koj yuav pom quarrels, scandals, partings, kua muag, ntxeev siab, kev txom nyem, manipulation, intrigue, dag thiab omissions.
Kev zoo siab kev sib raug zoo yog qhov dhuav dhau, koj tsis tuaj yeem tsim ib qho chaw nyob ib puag ncig lawv. Tsis muaj leej twg yuav txhawj txog tsib lub caij nyoog txog tus phab ej uas tau ntsib, poob rau hauv kev hlub, tau sib yuav thiab nyob kaj siab lug, tsis muaj kev khib, tsis sib cais thiab tsis ua rau ib leeg lub hlwb. Qhov screen twists thiab lem yog xav tau kom txav cov zajlus thiab tau txais tib neeg saib ib ntu tom qab lwm.
Tab sis nyob rau qee lub sijhawm peb tsis paub qhov tseeb ntawm qhov tseeb thiab hloov cov qauv yeeb yaj kiab rau hauv lub neej zoo tib yam. Thiab thaum kawg, peb pib ntseeg tias qhov no yog li cas txoj kev sib raug zoo yuav tsum saib: yog li ntawd ib yam dab tsi tshwm sim tas li, cov hlab ntsha yog nruj, thiab qib ntawm kev mob siab rau qhov siab tshaj plaws. Raws li qhov tshwm sim, peb tab tom nrhiav rau "cov teeb meem" cov neeg koom tes.
3. Lawv tseem tsis tau loj hlob
Hloov chaw, lawv tsis tau loj hlob mus rau kev sib raug zoo thiab muaj txiaj ntsig. Yog li ntawd, nws zoo li lawv "ua si" ntawm kev sib hlub: lawv tuav thawj tus khub uas lawv tuaj hla, vim tias txhua yam tsis yog tiag tiag, kev lom zem.
Vim li cas flybagging txaus ntshai?
- Nws yog qaug zog. Tag nrho cov kev xav no viav vias-roundabouts thiab kev sib txuas lus nrog coj txawv txawv, tsis yog ib txwm qab ntxiag cov neeg yog heev nkees. Lwm qhov chaw ntawm lub neej tuaj yeem cuam tshuam loj heev los ntawm qhov no.
- Nws tuaj yeem ua rau muaj kev sib raug zoo. Tsis yog tus khub tsim nyog tshaj plaws tseem yog ib nrab ntawm cov teeb meem. Nws yog qhov phem dua yog tias tus narcissist thiab tus tswj hwm tuaj hla, uas nws tsis yooj yim kom tshem tawm.
- Nws undermines self-esteem. Qee lub sij hawm, tej zaum nws yuav zoo li tias koj tsuas nyiam cov neeg phem xwb, thiab yuav tsis muaj neeg siab zoo thiab zoo hauv koj lub neej. Thiab ib qho kev sib raug zoo yog doomed rau kev ua tsis tiav.
Yuav ua li cas yog tias koj pheej xaiv cov neeg koom tes tsis ncaj ncees lawm
1. Nco ntsoov
Koj yuav tau kawm txog kev lav ris ntau dua rau kev sib raug zoo hauv kev sib raug zoo thiab kev xaiv ntawm tus khub tshwj xeeb.
Txawm hais tias "mus txog rau thaum tuag tsis ua rau peb" tsis suav nrog koj cov phiaj xwm tam sim no, kev sib raug zoo tseem yog ib feem ntawm koj lub neej, qee zaum hnyav heev. Thiab nws yog qhov zoo dua uas nws coj koj txoj kev xav zoo, thiab tsis yog kev paub nyob mus ib txhis.
Ua ntej yuav koom nrog lwm tus romance, nug koj tus kheej seb koj xav li cas rau tus neeg, seb koj nyiam nws, dab tsi flaws koj pom nyob rau hauv nws thiab seb koj puas npaj siab tso nrog lawv. Xav txog qhov kev sib raug zoo tshiab tuaj yeem ua rau koj lub neej thiab nws haum koj li cas.
2. Tsis txhob saib TV
Ntawd yog, saib, tau kawg, tab sis nco ntsoov tias kev sib raug zoo ntawm cov cim yog qhov piv txwv tsis zoo, thiab hauv lub neej nws yuav tsum tsis txhob ua li ntawd.
3. Kawm nyob ib leeg
Qee zaum peb rub mus rau cov neeg tsis nkag siab, vim tias tsis muaj cov neeg nkag siab nyob ze, thiab nyob ib leeg yog qhov tsis txaus siab thiab txaus ntshai. Tab sis kev kho siab tsis yog kev rau txim, thiab lub neej uas tsis muaj tus khub yuav ua tiav raws li nrog nws. Tshwj xeeb tshaj yog tias koj muaj ib txoj haujlwm, phooj ywg, kev nyiam ua, lossis lwm yam uas ua rau muaj kev xyiv fab.
4. Mus ntsib kws kho mob hlwb
Tej zaum lub hauv paus ntawm qhov teeb meem yog tias koj tsis muaj kev ruaj ntseg ntawm koj tus kheej. Nws tsim nyog ua haujlwm los ntawm lub sijhawm no nrog tus kws tshaj lij, vim tias kev ntseeg siab thiab muaj zog ntawm tus kheej ciam teb yog lub hauv paus ntawm kev sib raug zoo.
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