Cov txheej txheem:
- Tshiab qub saib
- Kev xav thiab kev cai
- Kev teeb tsa thiab kev lag luam
- Kev teeb tsa thiab cov menyuam yaus
- Installations thiab kev kawm system
- Los xaus
2024 Tus sau: Malcolm Clapton | [email protected]. Kawg hloov kho: 2023-12-17 03:58
Carol Dweck tau tshawb pom tias muaj 2 hom kev coj cwj pwm: DATA teeb tsa thiab kev loj hlob. Koj yuav kawm txog qhov nws yog dab tsi thiab qhov chaw twg txiav txim siab koj lub neej los ntawm kev tshuaj xyuas no.
Koj puas yog me me?
Yog? Kuv yeej tsis xav li cas.
Cov neeg laus puas tau hais rau koj tias koj yog ib tug neeg txawj ntse? Los yog zoo nraug? Los yog ib tug hero?
Zoo, lawv tau ua rau koj tsis txaus siab lossis ua rau koj lub neej puas tag nrho. Yog li hais tias Carol Dweck.
Cov ntawv tshaj tawm no muab cov ntsiab lus ntawm nws phau ntawv tshiab.
Carol pom tias muaj ob hom kev coj cwj pwm:
- teeb tsa rau DATA
- installation ntawm GROWTH
Lub siab ruaj khov ua rau koj saib xyuas thawj zaug thiab qhov tseem ceeb tshaj plaws txog qhov koj yuav tau txais txiaj ntsig; kev loj hlob mindset - xav txog kev txhim kho tus kheej.
| Lub siab ruaj khov | Kev loj hlob mindset |
| Xav kom zoo dua | Xav kom zoo dua |
| Tsis zam kev pheej hmoo | Tsis muaj kev pheej hmoo, tsis muaj kev vam meej |
| Kev txawj ntse yog qhov tseem ceeb | Kev txawj ntse tsis yog qhov tseem ceeb. Qhov tseem ceeb yog kev ua haujlwm |
| Failure sib npaug | Failure - kev cob qhia cwm pwm thiab kev txhawb siab |
| Kev thuam yog qhov phem. Tsis tas yuav hloov rau nws | Kev thuam yog qhov zoo. Nws yog khoom noj rau introspection |
| Rate thiab txaus siab rau | Kawm thiab pab kawm |
| Los ntawm kev ntxhov siab rau txhua yam kab mob | Dab tsi tsis tua peb ua rau peb muaj zog |
| Kuv tsis yog liam rau kuv qhov ua tsis tiav | Kuv yog lub luag haujlwm rau kuv qhov ua tsis tiav |
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Raws li koj tuaj yeem xav, tus sau qhuas txog kev loj hlob ntawm kev xav thiab thuam qhov kev xav ruaj khov.
Nws piav qhia suav tsis txheeb piv txwv los ntawm kev ua kis las, kev lag luam thiab kev sib raug zoo ntawm tsev neeg. Ib tug txiv neej nyob thiab nyob nrog lub siab ruaj, nws nyob tsis zoo. Thiab ces nws hloov nws lub siab, thiab nws tus kheej lub neej vam meej, thiab kev vam meej nws tus kheej khob qhov rooj. Cov ntaub ntawv kev lag luam hauv Asmeskas cov ntaub ntawv … Hauv txoj kev zoo))
Tshiab qub saib
Nyob rau hauv lub npe ntawm phau ntawv peb pom - "zoo li tshiab", tab sis nws puas tshiab?
Saib, peb ntxiv:
- Covey thawj qhov kev txawj "Ua kom muaj zog" (ua tus tswv, tsis yog qhev rau qhov xwm txheej, tsim koj tus kheej txoj hmoo)
- Qhov kev txawj thib xya ntawm Covey "Sharpen the saw" (nco txhim kho)
- Thiab ntws orientation es tsis txhob tshwm sim los ntawm Mihai Chikszentmihalyi
Thiab peb tau txais - TA-DAM! - Kev loj hlob mindset los ntawm Carol Dweck.
Tsis txhob xav tias kuv liam Carol ntawm plagiarism. Tsis muaj teeb meem! Muaj ntau txoj hauv kev, nws tsim cov tswv yim saum toj no thiab mus ntxiv. Tsis tas li ntawd, nws yog tus kws kho mob uas txhawb nqa txhua yam nrog kev sim (tshwj xeeb nrog cov menyuam yaus). Dab tsi tsis ncaj ncees lawm nrog cov tswv yim zoo pom lub teeb ntawm lub kaum sab xis sib txawv thiab rau cov neeg tuaj saib sib txawv kiag li?
Carol nco ntau yam los ntawm nws txoj kev xav. Kuv yuav sau ib co ntawm lawv.
Kev xav thiab kev cai
Koj puas tau pom tias ntau tus nom tswv thiab txawm tias tag nrho lub xeev muaj kev xav ruaj khov?
Nyob rau hauv cov teb chaws xws li, lawv feem ntau nco txog cov kab lig kev cai, txog lub neej yav dhau los, hais txog kev cais tawm ntawm lawv cov neeg, thiab cov thawj coj feem ntau suav hais tias yog tus Mexiyas thiab tus neeg tsis tuaj yeem hloov tau. Koj tuaj yeem nco qab, piv txwv li, Nazi lub teb chaws Yelemees thiab Hitler nrog nws txoj kev xav ntawm qhov zoo tshaj plaws ntawm haiv neeg Aryan - qhov no yog qib siab ntawm kev xav hauv kev nom kev tswv.
Kev teeb tsa thiab kev lag luam
Hauv kev lag luam, tus thawj coj ntawm lub siab xav tseem pheej hmoo poob rau hauv kev tswj hwm kev tswj hwm thiab kev ua phem. Tshwj xeeb, Carol tau thuam Lee Iacocca, tus thawj coj legendary uas feem ntau tau qhuas. Carol smashes nws rau smithereens.
Kev teeb tsa thiab cov menyuam yaus
Ib nrab ntawm phau ntawv zoo yog mob siab rau kev yug me nyuam. Tom qab tag nrho, koj tsis tas yuav yog Freud kom nkag siab tias tag nrho peb cov kab laum laus tshwm sim thaum yau.
Tab sis nws txoj kev cai rau peb tsa peb tus me nyuam li cas? Los ntawm thiab loj, tsuas yog carrots thiab sticks yog siv - thuam thiab qhuas.
… tsis muaj leej twg thuam cov me nyuam mos thiab tsis xav tias lawv ruam, vim lawv hais tsis tau.
Carol hais tias cov qauv kev thuam thiab kev qhuas yog ua raws li kev xav ruaj khov. Kuv yuav tsum pom zoo nrog nws.
| Yuav ua li cas TSIS TAU | Yuav ua li cas |
| Tau txais A? Koj yog kuv tus me genius! | Tau txais A? Koj yog kuv tus me workaholic! |
| Koj yog tus ntse tshaj hauv chav kawm! Tus so tsuas yog rams | Koj yog tus zoo tshaj. Tsis xav tias koj ua ntau npaum li ntawd. Tus so ua tsawg dua |
| Qib 5? Hmoov tsis zoo, nws tshwm sim. Koj yeej yuav yeej lwm zaus! | Qib 5? Thawj 4 tug tub ua haujlwm hnyav dua. Peb yuav tsum npaj kom zoo dua xyoo tom ntej. |
| Tau txais ib tug deuce? Ib qho idiot! | Tau txais ib tug deuce? Qhov no tshwm sim thaum koj saib TV txhua hnub. |
| Ncuav tshuaj yej? Tus tshis! | Ncuav tshuaj yej? Tsis txhob nchuav ntau ntxiv. Ncuav me ntsis. |
Kuv tuaj ua piv txwv kuv tus kheej. Ib tug ruam, ib tug tshis - ib tug yuav hais tias cov niam txiv tsis txhob cem cov me nyuam li ntawd. Ntseeg kuv, lawv thuam, tsis yog li ntawd! Kuv pom nws yuav luag txhua hnub.
Thiab lub tswv yim yog yooj yim - tsis tas yuav dai daim ntawv lo rau cov menyuam yaus, yog lawv zoo, xws li "genius" lossis "zoo nraug", yog lawv phem, xws li "moron" lossis "crooked-handed". Ib daim ntawv lo zoo ua rau tus menyuam tsis txaus siab, ua rau nws khav theeb. Tsis zoo daim ntawv lo kis rot thiab suppresses teg num.
Kuv yog ib tug txiv hluas kuv tus kheej, thiab phau ntawv tau txais kuv xav.
Installations thiab kev kawm system
Hauv kuv lub tsev kawm ntawv, cov tub ntxhais kawm thawj zaug raug xa mus kuaj. Qhov zoo tshaj plaws tau cuv npe hauv chav kawm "A" thiab "B". Kuv tau mus rau "A". Tom qab ntawd lawv tau mob siab rau peb, muab cov kws qhia zoo tshaj plaws, xa peb mus rau Olympiads, thiab lwm yam. Peb xav tias peb ntse heev. Cov xaiv tseg. Thiab tus so raug deprived.
Ob leeg yog cov losers. Thawj tus muaj daim ntawv lo zoo ntawm lawv lub caj dab, thiab qhov thib ob muaj qhov tsis zoo.
Tab sis qhia kuv, dab tsi lub ntuj raug txim? Qhov no yog, los ntawm thiab loj, qhov teeb meem ntawm lub caij nyoog, puas yog?
ruam, ruam system.
Los xaus
Phau ntawv txhawb cov tswv yim zoo thiab txhawb koj kom loj hlob. Ntxiv mus, nws ua nws zoo. Tsawg kawg nws tau txhim kho kuv lub siab thiab kev sib ntaus sib tua)))
Qhov no tsis yog qhov xav tsis thoob, vim tias Carol tawm tsam nws tus kheej rau tag nrho cov ntaub ntawv zoo hauv tus ntsuj plig ntawm "Smile, so, thiab lub ntiaj teb nws tus kheej yuav coj koj txoj kev vam meej", uas kuv tsis lees paub.
Feem ntau, phau ntawv yooj yim nyeem. Yam tsawg kawg ntawm kev xav, qhov siab tshaj ntawm cov piv txwv.
Nyeem: Yog lawm. Tshwj xeeb tshaj yog tias koj loj hlob me nyuam.
Qib: 7/10
Koj tau coj tus cwj pwm zoo li cas thaum koj yog menyuam yaus? Thiab koj coj koj cov menyuam li cas?
Pom zoo:
"Cov menyuam yaus zoo siab": cov dab neeg ntawm cov neeg laus uas muaj kev npau suav thaum yau los yeej muaj tseeb
Nws yeej tsis lig dhau los ua kev zoo siab. Peb pom cov neeg uas nws txoj kev npau suav thaum yau tsis nyob hauv yav dhau los: ib tug neeg tau txais ib tug dev, thiab ib tug neeg sib txuas lus nrog ib tug mlom
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