2024 Tus sau: Malcolm Clapton | [email protected]. Kawg hloov kho: 2023-12-17 03:58
Cov me nyuam puas siab puas ntsws ntseeg hais tias cov niam txiv tsis tas yuav tuaj nrog kev lom zem rau lawv tus menyuam thaum lub caij so so. Kev ntxhov siab ua rau me nyuam muaj kev ywj pheej.
Tus me nyuam puas siab puas ntsws ntseeg hais tias nws tsis tas yuav teem caij rau tus me nyuam lub caij ntuj sov los ntawm ib teev kom nws ib txwm tsis khoom nrog ib yam dab tsi. Ntxiv mus, txoj hauv kev no rau kev npaj so haujlwm tiv thaiv tus menyuam los ntawm kev tshawb pom thiab ua qhov nws nyiam.
Lub luag haujlwm ntawm niam txiv yog los pab tus menyuam los ua nws qhov chaw hauv zej zog. Thiab "ua ib tug neeg laus" txhais tau hais tias muaj peev xwm tuav tau koj tus kheej thiab ua rau koj lub sijhawm dawb nrog qhov ua rau muaj kev xyiv fab thiab kev zoo siab. Yog tias cov niam txiv txiav txim siab rau tus menyuam yuav ua li cas nrog txhua feeb ntawm nws lub sijhawm dawb, nws tus kheej yuav tsis kawm ua qhov no.
Lyn Fry Child Psychologist, Kws Qhia Ntawv Tshwj Xeeb
Fry tsis yog tib qho taw qhia txog cov txiaj ntsig ntawm kev so boring. Nws tau txais kev txhawb nqa los ntawm Dr. Teresa Belton, ib tug neeg tuaj xyuas hauv University of East Anglia, uas kawm txog kev sib txuas ntawm kev dhuav thiab kev xav. Nyob rau hauv nws hais tias kev dhuav yog ib qho tseem ceeb rau kev tsim lub puab stimulus los ntawm qhov tseeb muaj peev xwm los tsim tau nthuav tawm.
Cov kws tshaj lij tau sib cav txog qhov tseem ceeb ntawm kev ua tsis muaj dab tsi rau ntau xyoo lawm. Nyob rau hauv 1993, psychoanalyst Adam Phillips tau sau tias kev dhuav tuaj yeem ua rau kev loj hlob. Boredom muab lub sijhawm los xav txog lub neej, tsis txhob poob siab, nws sau rau hauv nws phau ntawv On Kissing, Tickling, and Being Bored.
Cov niam txiv maniacally sim ua kom lawv tus menyuam tsis khoom, tsis yog muab sijhawm rau nws los nrhiav qee yam uas nws nyiam. Kev ntxhov siab yog ib feem thiab ib feem ntawm kev muaj peev xwm siv koj lub sijhawm xav.
Adam Phillips psychoanalyst
Lin Fry caw cov niam txiv, ua ke nrog lawv cov menyuam, uas muaj plaub xyoos, thaum pib hnub so, los zaum thiab sib koom ua ib daim ntawv teev cov kev ua ub no rau tus menyuam uas nws tuaj yeem mob siab rau nws lub sijhawm dawb. Nws tsim nyog suav nrog hauv nws cov haujlwm yooj yim: kev ua si, nyeem phau ntawv, caij tsheb kauj vab. Thiab tseem muaj qee yam nyuaj dua: ua noj hmo, ua si, thaij duab.
Thiab thaum tus menyuam tuaj yws yws txog kev dhuav, xa nws mus saib daim ntawv teev npe. Qhov no yuav cia tus menyuam txiav txim siab seb nws xav ua dab tsi. Tus me nyuam tej zaum yuav nyuaj siab thiab dhuav ib ntus, tab sis nws yog ib qho tseem ceeb kom nkag siab tias qhov no tsis yog nkim sij hawm.
Tsis muaj teeb meem ua rau me ntsis dhuav. Cov menyuam yaus yuav tsum kawm kom dhuav vim nws txhawb lawv kom ua tiav lawv lub hom phiaj. Kev ntxhov siab ua rau me nyuam muaj kev ywj pheej.
Lin Fry tus kws kho mob menyuam yaus
Ib txoj kev xav zoo sib xws tau muab tso rau hauv xyoo 1930 los ntawm tus kws tshawb fawb Bertrand Russell, uas tau mob siab rau ib tshooj ntawm nws phau ntawv "The Conquest of Happiness" rau tus nqi ntawm kev dhuav. Nws tau sau tias kev xav thiab kev muaj peev xwm los daws kev ntxhov siab yuav tsum tau paub los ntawm txhua tus menyuam yaus.
Ib tug me nyuam loj hlob zoo tshaj plaws yog tias, zoo li cov nroj tsuag hluas, nws tau tso rau hauv tib av thiab tsis cuam tshuam. Kev mus ncig ntau thiab ntau yam kev paub dhau los tsis zoo heev rau tus menyuam yaus, vim nws yuav loj hlob tsis muaj peev xwm ntawm lub sijhawm ntev fruitful monotony.
Bertrand Russell philosopher
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Yog vim li cas nws tsis tsim nyog thiab muaj teeb meem heev rau xa ib tug me nyuam mus rau peb lub tsev kawm ntawv
Hauv lub ntiaj teb niaj hnub no, kev loj hlob, kev kawm thiab kev sib raug zoo ntawm tus menyuam yog lub luag haujlwm ntawm niam txiv. Muab tus menyuam mus kawm ntawv kom nws tsis txhob cuam tshuam peb